"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Putting women in perspective

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER

When you see ms. Barbie walking down the hall, comment and say, how long did it take you to put all that makeup on? Those shoes are nice, but what is up with that shirt?

Treat women as they are....and they will respect you.

haha, but where will that get you apart froma slap round the face?


i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sstype

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
guys...you all have some great viewpoints....i would have to agree with a lot of you..

I just wanted to add, women are not evil, nor are they bad creatures who are only out to seek and destroy...haha....

but rather, most women are insecure. Yeah! Some women, will not even come out of the house, if they are not all dressed up like Tyra Banks about to do a photo shoot, haah!

but guys, we should apprecite that! We should apprecite them looking nice, but as to your question, should we tolerate their attitudes...?

I think we are just missing the point. I think most of what women do with their stuck up attitudes are just a ploy, just something that they do actually out of insecurity.

So....how do you deal with an insecure person? Well, you must first come down to their level, no I dont mean buyng gifts....but you must react to her, as if....she is insecure.

When you see ms. Barbie walking down the hall, comment and say, how long did it take you to put all that makeup on? Those shoes are nice, but what is up with that shirt?

Treat women as they are....and they will respect you.

Under all that booty, and tities, and makeup, and attitude, their is a little shy girl under there, who is just wishing to get out....lets discuss this some more guys.....haha
That is ridiculous, you are still trying to impress her by bringing her down. I just treat them as if they were average and nothing special, indifferent and superior to their little games.

You would not bring down an average girl like that. I am not advocating treating "hot" girls like ****, but instead just being indifferent to their beauty, as if she was just an average chick.
 

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Originally posted by Not Quite There
haha, but where will that get you apart froma slap round the face?


i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
Hehe, well the key is to knock her down while still showing some appreciation. You have to do it semi-affectionately.
 

LuckyStrike

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Under all that booty, and tities, and makeup, and attitude, their is a little shy girl under there, who is just wishing to get out...
Exactly! If you just remember that they all put their pants on the same way and their sh-t stinks just like everybody else's. The point is to never change who you are or what you stand for regardless of what kind of an attitude some chic has. It means nothing to a true DJ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tazman

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So true. There was this nice blonde chick that worked at this gym I go to. All the guys would stare and some would chat her up, but I would pretty much ignore her. I did make eye contact a few times but that was it. You should have seen how hard she tried to get my attention.....it was hilarious to me because I've been reading about AW's on this site.

It's so rewarding to actually "see" the stuff that's discussed here on the boards, especially when you apply some of it for yourself.
 

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Guys , Don't take women seriously , treat her as a 5 years old kid . Women are fun , enjoyable , great to be consumed but not taken seriously ...
 

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I've gone through the whole "women suck" thing... now i'm completely disinterested. By that, I mean physical beauty doesn't do it for me. I am simply not attracted to anyone based on their appearance. It helps, but I CANNOT be attracted to someone who is, for example, *****y.

It would be easier if this were not the case, but I can't help it. Looks just aren't enough any more. It's actually, to me, the wrapping on the gift. I don't want dog crap that is beautifully wrapped.

On one level this is frustrating because there aren't many women i'm interested in, but it also does make you realise that they aren't these perfect creatures and, as the title suggests, puts them in perspective.
 

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bullmoose said:
It's just pvssy. It all bleeds, it all smells, and we need it worse than heroin.

But we have something that women need as badly as we need to bust our nuts -- they need our ATTENTION. Deny them that, and have patience, and watch what happens.
Curious though, what about the 'introverts' who seem to care little for sexual pleasures in life, thus rarely, if ever, persure women? They give no attention to HB's, yet don't get any attention back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KarmaSutra

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bullmoose said:
It's just pvssy. It all bleeds, it all smells, and we need it worse than heroin.

But we have something that women need as badly as we need to bust our nuts -- they need our ATTENTION. Deny them that, and have patience, and watch what happens.

Talk about your goddamn nutshell . . . Right on brother.
 

Cruise

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I agree...

ADHD may just be the most sexiest mental disorder ever...
 
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