"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Putting women in perspective

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER

When you see ms. Barbie walking down the hall, comment and say, how long did it take you to put all that makeup on? Those shoes are nice, but what is up with that shirt?

Treat women as they are....and they will respect you.

haha, but where will that get you apart froma slap round the face?


i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sstype

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
guys...you all have some great viewpoints....i would have to agree with a lot of you..

I just wanted to add, women are not evil, nor are they bad creatures who are only out to seek and destroy...haha....

but rather, most women are insecure. Yeah! Some women, will not even come out of the house, if they are not all dressed up like Tyra Banks about to do a photo shoot, haah!

but guys, we should apprecite that! We should apprecite them looking nice, but as to your question, should we tolerate their attitudes...?

I think we are just missing the point. I think most of what women do with their stuck up attitudes are just a ploy, just something that they do actually out of insecurity.

So....how do you deal with an insecure person? Well, you must first come down to their level, no I dont mean buyng gifts....but you must react to her, as if....she is insecure.

When you see ms. Barbie walking down the hall, comment and say, how long did it take you to put all that makeup on? Those shoes are nice, but what is up with that shirt?

Treat women as they are....and they will respect you.

Under all that booty, and tities, and makeup, and attitude, their is a little shy girl under there, who is just wishing to get out....lets discuss this some more guys.....haha
That is ridiculous, you are still trying to impress her by bringing her down. I just treat them as if they were average and nothing special, indifferent and superior to their little games.

You would not bring down an average girl like that. I am not advocating treating "hot" girls like ****, but instead just being indifferent to their beauty, as if she was just an average chick.
 

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Originally posted by Not Quite There
haha, but where will that get you apart froma slap round the face?


i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
Hehe, well the key is to knock her down while still showing some appreciation. You have to do it semi-affectionately.
 

LuckyStrike

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Under all that booty, and tities, and makeup, and attitude, their is a little shy girl under there, who is just wishing to get out...
Exactly! If you just remember that they all put their pants on the same way and their sh-t stinks just like everybody else's. The point is to never change who you are or what you stand for regardless of what kind of an attitude some chic has. It means nothing to a true DJ...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tazman

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So true. There was this nice blonde chick that worked at this gym I go to. All the guys would stare and some would chat her up, but I would pretty much ignore her. I did make eye contact a few times but that was it. You should have seen how hard she tried to get my attention.....it was hilarious to me because I've been reading about AW's on this site.

It's so rewarding to actually "see" the stuff that's discussed here on the boards, especially when you apply some of it for yourself.
 

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Guys , Don't take women seriously , treat her as a 5 years old kid . Women are fun , enjoyable , great to be consumed but not taken seriously ...
 

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I've gone through the whole "women suck" thing... now i'm completely disinterested. By that, I mean physical beauty doesn't do it for me. I am simply not attracted to anyone based on their appearance. It helps, but I CANNOT be attracted to someone who is, for example, *****y.

It would be easier if this were not the case, but I can't help it. Looks just aren't enough any more. It's actually, to me, the wrapping on the gift. I don't want dog crap that is beautifully wrapped.

On one level this is frustrating because there aren't many women i'm interested in, but it also does make you realise that they aren't these perfect creatures and, as the title suggests, puts them in perspective.
 

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bullmoose said:
It's just pvssy. It all bleeds, it all smells, and we need it worse than heroin.

But we have something that women need as badly as we need to bust our nuts -- they need our ATTENTION. Deny them that, and have patience, and watch what happens.
Curious though, what about the 'introverts' who seem to care little for sexual pleasures in life, thus rarely, if ever, persure women? They give no attention to HB's, yet don't get any attention back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bullmoose said:
It's just pvssy. It all bleeds, it all smells, and we need it worse than heroin.

But we have something that women need as badly as we need to bust our nuts -- they need our ATTENTION. Deny them that, and have patience, and watch what happens.

Talk about your goddamn nutshell . . . Right on brother.
 

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I agree...

ADHD may just be the most sexiest mental disorder ever...
 
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