Not Quite There
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haha, but where will that get you apart froma slap round the face?
i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Putting women in perspective
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i don't want anymore drinks thrown at me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That is ridiculous, you are still trying to impress her by bringing her down. I just treat them as if they were average and nothing special, indifferent and superior to their little games.
You would not bring down an average girl like that. I am not advocating treating "hot" girls like ****, but instead just being indifferent to their beauty, as if she was just an average chick.
LuckyStrike
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Exactly! If you just remember that they all put their pants on the same way and their sh-t stinks just like everybody else's. The point is to never change who you are or what you stand for regardless of what kind of an attitude some chic has. It means nothing to a true DJ...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So true. There was this nice blonde chick that worked at this gym I go to. All the guys would stare and some would chat her up, but I would pretty much ignore her. I did make eye contact a few times but that was it. You should have seen how hard she tried to get my attention.....it was hilarious to me because I've been reading about AW's on this site.
It's so rewarding to actually "see" the stuff that's discussed here on the boards, especially when you apply some of it for yourself.
It's so rewarding to actually "see" the stuff that's discussed here on the boards, especially when you apply some of it for yourself.
I've gone through the whole "women suck" thing... now i'm completely disinterested. By that, I mean physical beauty doesn't do it for me. I am simply not attracted to anyone based on their appearance. It helps, but I CANNOT be attracted to someone who is, for example, *****y.
It would be easier if this were not the case, but I can't help it. Looks just aren't enough any more. It's actually, to me, the wrapping on the gift. I don't want dog crap that is beautifully wrapped.
On one level this is frustrating because there aren't many women i'm interested in, but it also does make you realise that they aren't these perfect creatures and, as the title suggests, puts them in perspective.
It would be easier if this were not the case, but I can't help it. Looks just aren't enough any more. It's actually, to me, the wrapping on the gift. I don't want dog crap that is beautifully wrapped.
On one level this is frustrating because there aren't many women i'm interested in, but it also does make you realise that they aren't these perfect creatures and, as the title suggests, puts them in perspective.
TheTrinket
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Curious though, what about the 'introverts' who seem to care little for sexual pleasures in life, thus rarely, if ever, persure women? They give no attention to HB's, yet don't get any attention back.bullmoose said:
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Spot on.HB_Hunter said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
KarmaSutra
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bullmoose said:
Talk about your goddamn nutshell . . . Right on brother.