putting it to the subconscious level

[tarotale]

ya, i now know. it's all about being NATURAL
well, the problem with that is that it is hard

i asked some questions to natural dudes who know how to get women.


i asked them "so do you think about things in your head when talking to women?" and they all said "no i am just being myself"

these lucky bastards don have to try to improve like me or others here
because they are natural

now i am focusing all about being natural, being me and incorporating
techniques, knowledge so they come out Naturally.

this is very hard for me since i am def not natural.
so natural guys here, how do you put it to the natural level?

i am tired in my brain to think about all the techniques and what to say
all the time when i talk to women. bring the enlightment fellas

 

[oakraiderz2]

Habituation. Keep doing what youre doing and eventually it will become second nature. As you get better at something you dont have to exhert as much energy when you perform it because you dont have to focus on it. I used to think about what to do as well, now its become second nature. Just keep practicing and itll become second nature to you as well.

 

[cola]

Don't try to be smooth or sly.. just be fun and witty.. use observational humor.. and remember to entertain yourself and not the set..