"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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putting it to the subconscious level

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ya, i now know. it's all about being NATURAL
well, the problem with that is that it is hard

i asked some questions to natural dudes who know how to get women.


i asked them "so do you think about things in your head when talking to women?" and they all said "no i am just being myself"

these lucky bastards don have to try to improve like me or others here
because they are natural :mad:

now i am focusing all about being natural, being me and incorporating
techniques, knowledge so they come out Naturally.

this is very hard for me since i am def not natural.
so natural guys here, how do you put it to the natural level?

i am tired in my brain to think about all the techniques and what to say
all the time when i talk to women. bring the enlightment fellas
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Habituation. Keep doing what youre doing and eventually it will become second nature. As you get better at something you dont have to exhert as much energy when you perform it because you dont have to focus on it. I used to think about what to do as well, now its become second nature. Just keep practicing and itll become second nature to you as well.
 
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Don't try to be smooth or sly.. just be fun and witty.. use observational humor.. and remember to entertain yourself and not the set..
 
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