"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Putting down a foot

nan3109

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What do you guys do to your girl when she's disrespecting you? Even if you did it somehow first.... and she goes and says to you on the phone sarcastically "sorry, i had to hang up because some hot guy was checking me out" and all she ever does in public is talk about herself and have you see if she's looking good and when she goes by mirrors she checks herself out and says how hot she is but never compliments you.

wtf... why doesnt my girl compliment me, even though shes tied to me like a knot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Capi Crimini

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A. She's trying to prove to herself that she doesn't need you. subconciously or conciously

B. She's really not tied to a knot

C. Some other way I'm not thinking of cause I don't care. Sorry.

Good Luck:rolleyes:
 

MindOverMatter

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Read the Sir Chancelot section in the bible on neg-hits, and start using them.
 

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She's doing this because she's a self-centered, conceited, egotist who doesn't care about anything but herself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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