"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Putting down a foot

nan3109

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What do you guys do to your girl when she's disrespecting you? Even if you did it somehow first.... and she goes and says to you on the phone sarcastically "sorry, i had to hang up because some hot guy was checking me out" and all she ever does in public is talk about herself and have you see if she's looking good and when she goes by mirrors she checks herself out and says how hot she is but never compliments you.

wtf... why doesnt my girl compliment me, even though shes tied to me like a knot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Capi Crimini

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A. She's trying to prove to herself that she doesn't need you. subconciously or conciously

B. She's really not tied to a knot

C. Some other way I'm not thinking of cause I don't care. Sorry.

Good Luck:rolleyes:
 

MindOverMatter

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Read the Sir Chancelot section in the bible on neg-hits, and start using them.
 

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She's doing this because she's a self-centered, conceited, egotist who doesn't care about anything but herself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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