"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Putting down a foot

nan3109

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What do you guys do to your girl when she's disrespecting you? Even if you did it somehow first.... and she goes and says to you on the phone sarcastically "sorry, i had to hang up because some hot guy was checking me out" and all she ever does in public is talk about herself and have you see if she's looking good and when she goes by mirrors she checks herself out and says how hot she is but never compliments you.

wtf... why doesnt my girl compliment me, even though shes tied to me like a knot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Capi Crimini

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A. She's trying to prove to herself that she doesn't need you. subconciously or conciously

B. She's really not tied to a knot

C. Some other way I'm not thinking of cause I don't care. Sorry.

Good Luck:rolleyes:
 

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Read the Sir Chancelot section in the bible on neg-hits, and start using them.
 

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She's doing this because she's a self-centered, conceited, egotist who doesn't care about anything but herself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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