Ok, I realize I get much more USEFUL information here than from all the so called seduction gurus, and materal out there, so I have what I feel is an interesting question. It's pretty well known that what we say is only a very small part of communication, like ten percent I believe. And, women, people in general for that matter, can usually tell a lot about someone just by looking at them, which also means that women can tell almost instantly if they think someone is attractive or not. However, I don't think it's based on looks alone.I know I can tell a lot just by looking at someone. Aside from looks, how can one make themself seem more interesing, attractive, etc. 100% non-verbally? And waht is about people that give us these cues?? Thanks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Put on you thinking caps gents...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
David D has a whole program on body language,but for starters. Don't lean forward,[needy]lean back.Take up space,be totally relaxed and in control. Eliminate any bad habits[nervous tics,twitches]. Bein an open body posture[no crossed arms or legs]
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
When it comes to women, never put on your thinking caps..
You put on your thinking caps when you are dealing with sh!t of life, like work, school, and what it takes to be rich. Women, no.
You put on your thinking caps when you are dealing with sh!t of life, like work, school, and what it takes to be rich. Women, no.
You are right about that, it's illogical to think women will think logically, but this is more for myself. I think the phrase I was looking for is Natural Attraction. How can one convey attraction without ever saying a word??
Attraction rarely has anything to do with what you say, anyway.
I glance over at a girl. She sees me.
I hold eye contact. She nervously looks away.
As I walk towards her, she pretends to be doing something, but I can tell she's tensing up.
So far I haven't said a word to her, but the attraction has already taken place. You can spend years breaking down the body language, but you can achieve the same results much quicker with the right mental frame.
I glance over at a girl. She sees me.
I hold eye contact. She nervously looks away.
As I walk towards her, she pretends to be doing something, but I can tell she's tensing up.
So far I haven't said a word to her, but the attraction has already taken place. You can spend years breaking down the body language, but you can achieve the same results much quicker with the right mental frame.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Confident - relaxed mindset. Eye contact. Smile, and body language. Thats ppretty much it if you want to come off as attractive without saying anything.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is something that comes from inside. You can't fake it, and you can't learn it. Its instinctual and you have to find out how to activate it.
I do it through the gym. I get more energy. I also take various herbal supplements for my... problems. If you have any kind of physical or mental ailment then treat it otherwise it will suck energy. Physical, mental.. whatever the ailment is.
Another thing is to do something you like and can take pride in.
I do it through the gym. I get more energy. I also take various herbal supplements for my... problems. If you have any kind of physical or mental ailment then treat it otherwise it will suck energy. Physical, mental.. whatever the ailment is.
Another thing is to do something you like and can take pride in.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Bingo!!
this is one of the better post here as of late (hasn't been that many) KBJ's take notes!!
well today i was walking round student halls and i saw a girl coming out her room and as i walked passed i held eye contact smiled she smiled back and i carried on walking with a bit of an ego boost, then in the next corridor i saw another girl and smiled at her aswell and she smiled back. now i just need to go round and say hello to all these girls outside my comfort zone
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Because you're getting the truth and it doesn't sell as well as feel good bullsh*t that most "gurus" peddle to empty your pockets.Drewskie said:
You can't. You have to speak up. Yes looks are important but they can only tell you so much about a person. A personality and the way a person speaks will tell you far more. So say something, anything and that will communicate what and who you are across.
Chicks can't read THAT much. They're pretty weak judges of character actually. They're just responsive to certain things, and if you know what cues to give them you can fool them.
Douchebags do this all the time.
I have seen many instances where women will say, he's not cute/cute/ whatever, but there's just something about him, when they are sinply looking at a man. So there's got to be something other than personality, since it's based solely what they can see.Alle_Gory said: