"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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put me out of my misery.

talrock

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oh well...

Here's the long and short version:

sister of ex/friend of mine- "Amy"
ex/older sister of amy - "Jen"

got with amy's sister. was going through some personal issues when i was with jen.

jen broke it off with me, then wanted to be friends. I didnt tell jen that she hurt me, etc. I was an ******* to jen. so i tried to "fix it" the wussified way by writing her a letter or 2 (dear god).

Amy and i part on bad terms. get an email from jen saying she wants nothing to do with me.

few months later, Amy and i are fine.

Currently:
i keep hearing from amy that "don't expect jen to talk to you or look your way." Everytime I talk to amy, she mentions her sister (jen) in some way.

apparently I'm the antichrist, because Jen wont go anywhere if I'm there.

Jen was dragged to a mutual friend's party. I was wasted, and didnt give a f***. or so i thought

ever since jen's been on my mind. on and off.

WTF is wrong with me? i just recently IMed Jen saying "hi" figuring what I have to lose, jen responds back saying "who is this" I tell her it's me. and sign off.

i dont want to be friends with her, but i dont think things got completely resolved between us.

it has been quite some time since Jen and I spoke, it was a short relationship. never any official "titles" but it was "intense" (as described by jen and myself) somehthing we weren't ready to deal with at the time.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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L B

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Why waste time. It's over. Practice your DJ skills on the ladies. See a girl you like, go talk to her. Set up a date with her. Repeat as you go. Soon, you'll be so busy that you don't even remember your ex. While doing this, you will have fun and gain valuable experience.

My girlfriend started acting up last week. I got so tire of it, I went out and got all these numbers. I was so busy dating that I almost forgot about my gf. She called several days later and apologize for the way she acted. Damn, women on period.

Have fun,

LB
 

whistler

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You need to stop initiating contact with both of them. To help you do that, you need to go out and interact with new people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Porky

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I found that hard to understand. Could you please assign names to them?
 

talrock

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I tried IMing her, (not again) but whatever happens, happens. I took initiative.

if something comes of it, then fine. if not, then thats fine too.
 

Hollowpoint

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Man, totally move on, double trouble.

Originally posted by Porky
I found that hard to understand. Could you please steralize yourself?
Fixed! :D
 
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