"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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put me out of my misery.

talrock

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oh well...

Here's the long and short version:

sister of ex/friend of mine- "Amy"
ex/older sister of amy - "Jen"

got with amy's sister. was going through some personal issues when i was with jen.

jen broke it off with me, then wanted to be friends. I didnt tell jen that she hurt me, etc. I was an ******* to jen. so i tried to "fix it" the wussified way by writing her a letter or 2 (dear god).

Amy and i part on bad terms. get an email from jen saying she wants nothing to do with me.

few months later, Amy and i are fine.

Currently:
i keep hearing from amy that "don't expect jen to talk to you or look your way." Everytime I talk to amy, she mentions her sister (jen) in some way.

apparently I'm the antichrist, because Jen wont go anywhere if I'm there.

Jen was dragged to a mutual friend's party. I was wasted, and didnt give a f***. or so i thought

ever since jen's been on my mind. on and off.

WTF is wrong with me? i just recently IMed Jen saying "hi" figuring what I have to lose, jen responds back saying "who is this" I tell her it's me. and sign off.

i dont want to be friends with her, but i dont think things got completely resolved between us.

it has been quite some time since Jen and I spoke, it was a short relationship. never any official "titles" but it was "intense" (as described by jen and myself) somehthing we weren't ready to deal with at the time.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

L B

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Why waste time. It's over. Practice your DJ skills on the ladies. See a girl you like, go talk to her. Set up a date with her. Repeat as you go. Soon, you'll be so busy that you don't even remember your ex. While doing this, you will have fun and gain valuable experience.

My girlfriend started acting up last week. I got so tire of it, I went out and got all these numbers. I was so busy dating that I almost forgot about my gf. She called several days later and apologize for the way she acted. Damn, women on period.

Have fun,

LB
 

whistler

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You need to stop initiating contact with both of them. To help you do that, you need to go out and interact with new people.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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I found that hard to understand. Could you please assign names to them?
 

talrock

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I tried IMing her, (not again) but whatever happens, happens. I took initiative.

if something comes of it, then fine. if not, then thats fine too.
 

Hollowpoint

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Man, totally move on, double trouble.

Originally posted by Porky
I found that hard to understand. Could you please steralize yourself?
Fixed! :D
 
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