"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pussification is alive and kicking on facebook
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJinTraining06
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lol. facebook is horrible. Everyone I know puts their every thoguht on there its pathetic. Isn't anyone private anymore? People tell every little detal about their day, every day. They say everythign their feeling all the time with the expectation that all their "friends" will comment on their comments. It's creating an attention ***** society.
HeyPachuco!
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FAIL!
Many times I've been close to starting epic rants on Facebook about this, but then I quickly realise it's not worth it and I'll be bombarded with pussification comments. Notice how everyone is joining "fan" pages identicle to their emotions? Bahahaah! like, " I raved, fell in love, smiled and got my heart broken in 2009 "
Me on the other hand, I join fan pages of things I like doing or funny sh!t, not these fvcking emotional emosh bandwagon pages which contradict fb society. Facebook Staff has effed up privacy settings, NOTHING is actually private. I am purposely on there as it is a resource for me. Pics are private thats good enough for me.
I recently saw a girl go from "Single" to "In a relationship" EXACTLY 4 MINUTES LATER to "No longer in a relationship" LOL and her joining group advocating that ALL MEN WHERE BASTARDS Lmao.
Many times I've been close to starting epic rants on Facebook about this, but then I quickly realise it's not worth it and I'll be bombarded with pussification comments. Notice how everyone is joining "fan" pages identicle to their emotions? Bahahaah! like, " I raved, fell in love, smiled and got my heart broken in 2009 "
Me on the other hand, I join fan pages of things I like doing or funny sh!t, not these fvcking emotional emosh bandwagon pages which contradict fb society. Facebook Staff has effed up privacy settings, NOTHING is actually private. I am purposely on there as it is a resource for me. Pics are private thats good enough for me.
I recently saw a girl go from "Single" to "In a relationship" EXACTLY 4 MINUTES LATER to "No longer in a relationship" LOL and her joining group advocating that ALL MEN WHERE BASTARDS Lmao.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Quiksilver
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Haven't updated my facebook page in 2 years. It was fun in highschool and for the first couple years it was out... Now it's just lame.
You see people getting fired, getting their job applications rejected, and getting arrested/sued due to stuff on facebook.
My past employer would look up job applicants on facebook before hiring...
Just thinking about facebook makes me gag.
You see people getting fired, getting their job applications rejected, and getting arrested/sued due to stuff on facebook.
My past employer would look up job applicants on facebook before hiring...
Just thinking about facebook makes me gag.
facebook has been a great tool for keeping up with old friends. Aside from someone actually seeing the profile, there are enough privacy settings to keep employers out. But if they want to see a bunch of Machiavelli quotes, and some random rants about house flipping they can be my guest.
taiyuu_otoko
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This is too funny, from the second link:
So those who join and praise women - do so in the hope of getting a girl. Who would have thought. It's just Chump Dating Central.
And what's with the rule of no "mindlessly posting to tell us your a gentleman"? Wasn't that the whole point of the group, to talk about how great you are while other men are dirtbags? Seems the group leader wants a very narrow group: one where you just constantly praise women, without actually trying to do anything with them or showing off yourself. Wonder how many will agree with that.
And then, the UPDATE:
:crackup:
So those who join and praise women - do so in the hope of getting a girl. Who would have thought. It's just Chump Dating Central.
And what's with the rule of no "mindlessly posting to tell us your a gentleman"? Wasn't that the whole point of the group, to talk about how great you are while other men are dirtbags? Seems the group leader wants a very narrow group: one where you just constantly praise women, without actually trying to do anything with them or showing off yourself. Wonder how many will agree with that.
Okay, I have to revise my view of the second forum linked to in the OP. It seems there are many men who join there with a non-AFC attitude. Just look at this discussion:
OP:
OP:
So you'd expect the posters to fall over themselves in self-chastising. But no, the first three replies look like this:
Then the women in the group (Wasn't it supposed to be for men? What's this?) call them "sexist pigs."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nexus Polaris
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What's with the first picture on the feminist page? I don't think that means equality. Last time I checked, that was the symbol for hermaphrodite.
Rollo Tomassi
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't think there's anything wrong with the first one. I wouldn't join it personally, but don't think there's anything wrong with caring about women. There's room for a sensible DJ to genuinely care about women. I mean don't you guys want your own sisters to be with a man that cares about her? Or your own mothers for that matter?
As for the 2nd one, pretty lame, but to each his own.
The 3rd one is just disgusting. Nothing is worse than militant male feminists. These guys are psychologically castrated. Why don't they just finish the job with a physical castration and become geldings.
As for the 2nd one, pretty lame, but to each his own.
The 3rd one is just disgusting. Nothing is worse than militant male feminists. These guys are psychologically castrated. Why don't they just finish the job with a physical castration and become geldings.
haha looks like someone is seriously trolling this group with those fake abuse posters and people in the comment section are flipping out.taiyuu_otoko said:
I think I am going to post this picture in the feminist men group.
http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h226/kripper/motivational-posters-funny-06.jpg
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I wonder how many women have felt compelled to start FB groups called "Women who really care about guys"?
Beta feminine identification game, nothing more.
Beta feminine identification game, nothing more.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.