"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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xdreamz

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ok if a girl is push pulling you what do you do to fight back? let's say this coquette is pushing you so far away by telling you things like we should be friends and then pulling you a little bit by saying there is a chance..... it's some devilish **** but if you could master this skill you can get any woman to go crazy for you...


what have you guys done in situations like these???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THE_ADDMAN

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coquette? I havent heard that term in a while.

if you're having trouble handling push and pull from a girl, read the quote in my signature...
 

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Yea, if you care enough about her to make this post, then you are caring too much. You've obviously have glanced in Greene's book on seduction to pull out the word coquette. Truth be known, Addman is 100% right. Indifference. The best cure for oneitis is to be indifferent towards her and just keep living life and having fun.

Though I'm a notorious dandy, I've used coquette methods and they have never failed me. The chick gets hooked and starts taking drastic measures to win me over. Last time I used it, the chick was baffled. She obviously did the same thing, look to peers for advice. Next time I saw her, she used the French technique: asked my friend and co-counselor to the camp dance. Little did she know that he is my wingman, and he accepted. That night, I pea-****ed like no other with a massive fohawk and eye-liner. I came by every now and then to give my wing social proof high 5's and danced with almost her whole cabin. Eventually, my wing decided to take a break so we traded places. We had a great time dirty dancing with her all night, and I did the butt-bumping routine which is usually my opener at dances. Great success.

Could have easy f-closed her, or shared the love with my wing using Dustin's dual induction message technique. Decided against it as she was jail bait and sometimes being a PUA means saying no. The sexual tension was great though and the fun was definitely worth it. Still using Coquette mixed with Mystery Method on her when she calls just for practice. It's amazing. With indifference, all the techniques I use are flawless line, hook, and sinker. Learn this amazingly powerful ability, and you've got this broad down.
 

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push pull her back and make it obvious like literally obvious, if she says or does something disrespectful in your mind respectfully ignore th *****. Make her no your not oblivious to her tactics ignore her and if she negs you use ur social value to make her look like a jerk.
 

Miles Davis

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never appear to be using tactics! I wouldn't even let your mind get as far as thinking that she's using a tactic on you and you wouldnt need to post asking for advice on it. Seriously, not trying to be a d*ck, it works, try it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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