"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xdreamz

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ok if a girl is push pulling you what do you do to fight back? let's say this coquette is pushing you so far away by telling you things like we should be friends and then pulling you a little bit by saying there is a chance..... it's some devilish **** but if you could master this skill you can get any woman to go crazy for you...


what have you guys done in situations like these???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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THE_ADDMAN

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coquette? I havent heard that term in a while.

if you're having trouble handling push and pull from a girl, read the quote in my signature...
 

SamRi72

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Yea, if you care enough about her to make this post, then you are caring too much. You've obviously have glanced in Greene's book on seduction to pull out the word coquette. Truth be known, Addman is 100% right. Indifference. The best cure for oneitis is to be indifferent towards her and just keep living life and having fun.

Though I'm a notorious dandy, I've used coquette methods and they have never failed me. The chick gets hooked and starts taking drastic measures to win me over. Last time I used it, the chick was baffled. She obviously did the same thing, look to peers for advice. Next time I saw her, she used the French technique: asked my friend and co-counselor to the camp dance. Little did she know that he is my wingman, and he accepted. That night, I pea-****ed like no other with a massive fohawk and eye-liner. I came by every now and then to give my wing social proof high 5's and danced with almost her whole cabin. Eventually, my wing decided to take a break so we traded places. We had a great time dirty dancing with her all night, and I did the butt-bumping routine which is usually my opener at dances. Great success.

Could have easy f-closed her, or shared the love with my wing using Dustin's dual induction message technique. Decided against it as she was jail bait and sometimes being a PUA means saying no. The sexual tension was great though and the fun was definitely worth it. Still using Coquette mixed with Mystery Method on her when she calls just for practice. It's amazing. With indifference, all the techniques I use are flawless line, hook, and sinker. Learn this amazingly powerful ability, and you've got this broad down.
 

frisco

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push pull her back and make it obvious like literally obvious, if she says or does something disrespectful in your mind respectfully ignore th *****. Make her no your not oblivious to her tactics ignore her and if she negs you use ur social value to make her look like a jerk.
 

Miles Davis

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never appear to be using tactics! I wouldn't even let your mind get as far as thinking that she's using a tactic on you and you wouldnt need to post asking for advice on it. Seriously, not trying to be a d*ck, it works, try it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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