"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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push pull, now what?

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hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hov84 said:
hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
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All I can say is that women are like cats. If you chase them they run away. If you ignore them thats when they seem to appear on your lap.

I think the best thing to do is show some interest but at the same time let them know that you have options even if you have to fake it. A Womans interest seems to skyrocket if she suspects you are seeing or dating other women. So dont be always available and always be mysterious.

Of course the ideal situation is that your are seeing several women at the same time so that you arent constantly thinking and obsessing on any particular girl.
 
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