"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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push pull, now what?

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hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hov84 said:
hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
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All I can say is that women are like cats. If you chase them they run away. If you ignore them thats when they seem to appear on your lap.

I think the best thing to do is show some interest but at the same time let them know that you have options even if you have to fake it. A Womans interest seems to skyrocket if she suspects you are seeing or dating other women. So dont be always available and always be mysterious.

Of course the ideal situation is that your are seeing several women at the same time so that you arent constantly thinking and obsessing on any particular girl.
 
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