"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hov84 said:
hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.
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All I can say is that women are like cats. If you chase them they run away. If you ignore them thats when they seem to appear on your lap.

I think the best thing to do is show some interest but at the same time let them know that you have options even if you have to fake it. A Womans interest seems to skyrocket if she suspects you are seeing or dating other women. So dont be always available and always be mysterious.

Of course the ideal situation is that your are seeing several women at the same time so that you arent constantly thinking and obsessing on any particular girl.
 
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