Whenever I meet a girl whether if she comes up to me or I approach her. It always ends in the girl being pushed away from me. I finally found out the reason why from friends who investigated to find out why they stopped talking to me. It was because I was TOO FKN PUSHY!! Whenever I am with them I would hold them and all like they were already my girl. I've scared 3 girls already because of this. I'm just looking for a girlfriend and when I meet someone I get kinda out of hand and already initiate crap and hopefully now the next one I meet I can show her a LITTLE interest and then just pull away, touch her a little then abruptly STOP and ignore her. I hope this will better my game. It's so weird because what if I stop pursing a chick and she just thinks that I'm not interested in her and WON'T chase me?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pursuing a girl just pushes her away.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Theres really no 'game' you need to play with a woman like push and pull, etc.. no matter how many guys praise the method, I like to work a little more naturally.
If you come on very pushy, she is obviously going to take a step back and say "whoa desperate?" Remember, you're the prize. She has to earn her way into being touched by you. Start with light joking conversation. Once you spark her interest, move into something a little more sensual. If she starts responding well THEN sure, touch her a little bit.
A woman likes to work for a man. She wants that sense of "Well I'm going to show him who I am and if he likes it, he will respond positively". If you respond positively with no work from her, then you're just screaming disparity. She knows that she can get you no matter what she says, so she sees no challenge.
If you come on very pushy, she is obviously going to take a step back and say "whoa desperate?" Remember, you're the prize. She has to earn her way into being touched by you. Start with light joking conversation. Once you spark her interest, move into something a little more sensual. If she starts responding well THEN sure, touch her a little bit.
A woman likes to work for a man. She wants that sense of "Well I'm going to show him who I am and if he likes it, he will respond positively". If you respond positively with no work from her, then you're just screaming disparity. She knows that she can get you no matter what she says, so she sees no challenge.
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Too bad they think that making something work has to be challenging...LOL I dont like challenge I like functionality. Challenge turns me off.
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Master Don Juan
That's why we are men and they are women. We live logically and women live based on emotions. It's a painful truth, but denying it is futile.DonGorgon said:
I am pretty sure if a woman likes you...your being "pushy" will only speed things up towards her becoming your gf. Try it on fat chicks or someone who wants to be in a relationship. You will see what I am talking about.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.