Whenever I meet a girl whether if she comes up to me or I approach her. It always ends in the girl being pushed away from me. I finally found out the reason why from friends who investigated to find out why they stopped talking to me. It was because I was TOO FKN PUSHY!! Whenever I am with them I would hold them and all like they were already my girl. I've scared 3 girls already because of this. I'm just looking for a girlfriend and when I meet someone I get kinda out of hand and already initiate crap and hopefully now the next one I meet I can show her a LITTLE interest and then just pull away, touch her a little then abruptly STOP and ignore her. I hope this will better my game. It's so weird because what if I stop pursing a chick and she just thinks that I'm not interested in her and WON'T chase me?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pursuing a girl just pushes her away.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Theres really no 'game' you need to play with a woman like push and pull, etc.. no matter how many guys praise the method, I like to work a little more naturally.
If you come on very pushy, she is obviously going to take a step back and say "whoa desperate?" Remember, you're the prize. She has to earn her way into being touched by you. Start with light joking conversation. Once you spark her interest, move into something a little more sensual. If she starts responding well THEN sure, touch her a little bit.
A woman likes to work for a man. She wants that sense of "Well I'm going to show him who I am and if he likes it, he will respond positively". If you respond positively with no work from her, then you're just screaming disparity. She knows that she can get you no matter what she says, so she sees no challenge.
If you come on very pushy, she is obviously going to take a step back and say "whoa desperate?" Remember, you're the prize. She has to earn her way into being touched by you. Start with light joking conversation. Once you spark her interest, move into something a little more sensual. If she starts responding well THEN sure, touch her a little bit.
A woman likes to work for a man. She wants that sense of "Well I'm going to show him who I am and if he likes it, he will respond positively". If you respond positively with no work from her, then you're just screaming disparity. She knows that she can get you no matter what she says, so she sees no challenge.
DonGorgon
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Too bad they think that making something work has to be challenging...LOL I dont like challenge I like functionality. Challenge turns me off.
WC2
Master Don Juan
That's why we are men and they are women. We live logically and women live based on emotions. It's a painful truth, but denying it is futile.DonGorgon said:
I am pretty sure if a woman likes you...your being "pushy" will only speed things up towards her becoming your gf. Try it on fat chicks or someone who wants to be in a relationship. You will see what I am talking about.
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