"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pursue her best friend?

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So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SHChamp said:
So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
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This chick is hot for you, man, go for it. If she's cute and she wants to bone, why turn it down?? You'll be punching yourself in the balls during a dry spell. Smoke em if ya got em, son, fvck the future and live for today.

Good luck.
 
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This girl is an HB8, the only reason why I hadn't gone for her before is because I got slightly turned off by her chasing me. I don't know why, but I realize I should just give it a chance.

Fvck what the plate thinks. 'The only risk in life is not taking any risks at all.' right?

Thanks for the advice bro's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just do it, its not a losing situation for you, sure she would be mad, but she is not your problem, and if her friend wants go ahead
 
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