"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pursue her best friend?

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So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SHChamp said:
So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
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This chick is hot for you, man, go for it. If she's cute and she wants to bone, why turn it down?? You'll be punching yourself in the balls during a dry spell. Smoke em if ya got em, son, fvck the future and live for today.

Good luck.
 
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This girl is an HB8, the only reason why I hadn't gone for her before is because I got slightly turned off by her chasing me. I don't know why, but I realize I should just give it a chance.

Fvck what the plate thinks. 'The only risk in life is not taking any risks at all.' right?

Thanks for the advice bro's.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just do it, its not a losing situation for you, sure she would be mad, but she is not your problem, and if her friend wants go ahead
 
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