"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pursue her best friend?

SHChamp

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So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SAYNO

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SHChamp said:
So, I have recently dropped one of my plates due to her blatant immature behavior and her simply being an attention *****.

However, one of her good friends has been trying to get me to ask her out for quite some time now, but I am not quite sure if I should pursue this due to the obvious connection the two have and me knowing that the dropped plate is a drama seeker.

Her friend, has been dropping 'hints' for quite some time now. Constantly talking about how bad her dates have been lately, and that she wishes someone interesting would ask her out. Along with constantly trying to remind me that she is wanted by saying how annoying it is that she keeps getting approached by guys in clubs.

She went as far as asking to cook for me at her place sometime soon.

My question to you bro's, say **** it and go for it, or avoid the situation cause of the dropped plate?

New situation for me, so not quite sure how to handle, although my gut is telling me to just say **** it and go for her, the plate had her chance.
How does her friend look?
 

VladPatton

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This chick is hot for you, man, go for it. If she's cute and she wants to bone, why turn it down?? You'll be punching yourself in the balls during a dry spell. Smoke em if ya got em, son, fvck the future and live for today.

Good luck.
 

SHChamp

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This girl is an HB8, the only reason why I hadn't gone for her before is because I got slightly turned off by her chasing me. I don't know why, but I realize I should just give it a chance.

Fvck what the plate thinks. 'The only risk in life is not taking any risks at all.' right?

Thanks for the advice bro's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alvafe

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just do it, its not a losing situation for you, sure she would be mad, but she is not your problem, and if her friend wants go ahead
 
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