You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Chins are supposedly easier than pullups.Originally posted by Skel
What exactly is the difference between the 2?
I mean what body parts does each work.
I can do like 10 pullups but cant do many chinups.
Also do these help you get bigger or just stronger?
I disagree. Chins are not only for biceps. Pullups are not only for back. They are compound, and must be treated accordingly.Originally posted by DJBen
I still really struggle with a good deep pull up, but I can crank out chin ups until the cows come home.
Chins = bicep
Pullups = Back
They make you put on size and strength if done right. If it gets too easy you can add a weight belt and do them that way.
I never said they were only for biceps and back. I was just giving a general overview.I disagree. Chins are not only for biceps. Pullups are not only for back.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm with you...Originally posted by DJBen
Either way, pull ups are in my back day, chin ups would be in my bi's day. With me?
Triceps? You serious? Triceps are worked at pushing stuff.. And Biceps on pulling, basically.Originally posted by California Love
Chins = Biceps + Back
Pullups = Back + Triceps. However, the triceps are working at a very restricted angle, which makes pullups harder for most people.
Don't trust me braindmg? Check it out for yourself the next time you work out.Originally posted by -.-
Triceps? You serious? Triceps are worked at pushing stuff.. And Biceps on pulling, basically.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you know me? Who are you?Originally posted by California Love
Don't trust me braindmg? Check it out for yourself the next time you work out.
BBOriginally posted by -.-
How do you know me? Who are you?![]()
Sounds to me like an awesome idea. Throwing in "head rush" exercises like that for a few weeks will just tear you to shreads, and then you can go back to some isolations after your body is pumped from those weeks. seems like an awesome idea.What'd your oppinion be on adding in the occasional 3 weeks of doing purely big excersizes such as clean and jerks, deadlifts, squats, benching etc. From what I hear, taking up a powerlifting style routine for a short amount of time can really boost your strength and give your bodybuilding a sudden kick in the pants
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.