I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chins are supposedly easier than pullups.Originally posted by Skel
What exactly is the difference between the 2?
I mean what body parts does each work.
I can do like 10 pullups but cant do many chinups.
Also do these help you get bigger or just stronger?
I disagree. Chins are not only for biceps. Pullups are not only for back. They are compound, and must be treated accordingly.Originally posted by DJBen
I still really struggle with a good deep pull up, but I can crank out chin ups until the cows come home.
Chins = bicep
Pullups = Back
They make you put on size and strength if done right. If it gets too easy you can add a weight belt and do them that way.
I never said they were only for biceps and back. I was just giving a general overview.I disagree. Chins are not only for biceps. Pullups are not only for back.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm with you...Originally posted by DJBen
Either way, pull ups are in my back day, chin ups would be in my bi's day. With me?
Triceps? You serious? Triceps are worked at pushing stuff.. And Biceps on pulling, basically.Originally posted by California Love
Chins = Biceps + Back
Pullups = Back + Triceps. However, the triceps are working at a very restricted angle, which makes pullups harder for most people.
Don't trust me braindmg? Check it out for yourself the next time you work out.Originally posted by -.-
Triceps? You serious? Triceps are worked at pushing stuff.. And Biceps on pulling, basically.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How do you know me? Who are you?Originally posted by California Love
Don't trust me braindmg? Check it out for yourself the next time you work out.
BBOriginally posted by -.-
How do you know me? Who are you?![]()
Sounds to me like an awesome idea. Throwing in "head rush" exercises like that for a few weeks will just tear you to shreads, and then you can go back to some isolations after your body is pumped from those weeks. seems like an awesome idea.What'd your oppinion be on adding in the occasional 3 weeks of doing purely big excersizes such as clean and jerks, deadlifts, squats, benching etc. From what I hear, taking up a powerlifting style routine for a short amount of time can really boost your strength and give your bodybuilding a sudden kick in the pants
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.