"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't know about worshipping pug, but half the people on here are just bewildered that he went off the deep end. it's like watching a car crash

thanks for the posts, will check them out, since apparaently there's other people on here actually DOING something, not just making theories
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have mentioned the approach journal forum in the "Suggestions and Feedback" forum.

If anyone wants to reopen that thread and show support, maybe we can get it set up.
 
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Originally posted by duke007
The thing I don't get is why people made such a huge deal over Pug's journal?? Sure he put his balls on the line and made the effort but there have been plenty more journals written with a LOT more quality material in them.

The following journals deserve more attention than they actually get:

Duke Progress Journal - Duke
Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova - Krassus
Daily Journal for Cold Approaches - jwhite17
Boot Camp Journal - Walden
77 approaches and several shame attacks in 2 weeks! - Guitar Whizz

There are others, just cant remember off the top of my head. Is there something I'm missing with the Pug's worshipping?
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I think part of it has to do with the fact that Pug's is overweight, so I guess it takes more 'guts' for him to be approaching these girls. If he looked like a model then it wouldn't be such a big deal, but he is just a regular looking guy at best. I'm guessing a lot of people on this site don't look anything like models either, so they can relate to him easier. It's also more inspirational because a lot of members can say "Well if he did it...so can I!" kinda thing.
 
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Has anyone noticed what an @sshole Pugs was? Look back at the thread, Myself and several people tried to give him positive feedback and he b1tched us out.

Pugs was a dumbfukk who probably didn't approach one girl, he just wanted to be an internet hero so made up all this crap so people who don't have the ballz to approach girls themselves would worship him.

If you want a real post, check out Avatar's or Don Joffe's Bootcamp Journal.

CLOSE THIS THREAD
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think Pugsley just felt like he didn't owe us anything, and I guess that is true.

Still, the likelihood he found true love after 20+ approaches is either very hopeful or very misleading to those trying to repeat his act.


I think the odds of finding this success in roughly 20 approaches is very unlikely...
 
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Funny, he DOES look like pugsley, mixed with a little Uncle Fester. I wonder if his girlfriend looked like Wednesday.
 
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Originally posted by Ever onward
Has anyone noticed what an @sshole Pugs was? Look back at the thread, Myself and several people tried to give him positive feedback and he b1tched us out.

Pugs was a dumbfukk who probably didn't approach one girl, he just wanted to be an internet hero so made up all this crap so people who don't have the ballz to approach girls themselves would worship him.

If you want a real post, check out Avatar's or Don Joffe's Bootcamp Journal.

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yeah he was a bit of a knob alright.
 
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Hey Pugly hehehehe. why are you here in the first place? I you were meeting you must be meeting them already. not doing it here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its funny how that guy has more balls than half of the people on here....
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Prove it

Prove that he even did one approach and didn't just make up a bunch a crap to be an internet hero.

Speak for yourself by the way, I am damn ballsy, I will approach any woman I feel like. I don't give a fukk.

But seriously, this thread is dead, he's not coming back. Read other posts people. There is nothing but fighting on this damn thread now.

This is the last time I'm going to waste time replying to this thread. You guys enjoy this "productive discussion".

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Man Talk about activity, you guys are worshipping me........

Hey guys, I see what happens when you change jobs without internet access and leave a post to sit a few monthes lol...

You all are worshipping me like a god, not that trust me. i just was tired of living in fear and wanted to overcome that fear and met a very nice girl along the way.

I broke up with her 2 monthes ago cause of differences in opinions and the fact that she loves to start arguments all the time and I hate drama so I just canned it, I can't live with that negative crap all the time. I will be back out in the hunt again though very soon using my old approach and will update it on here each time I do, I would really jsut want to find a girl thats good looking and something long term truthfully my priorities right now are not for a fling or str I want long term.

I will be in the hunt very soon, thats for all of your supprt and criticisms, I find that people who do something are always criticised by people who don't or haven't cause of self image....so this criticism doesn't bother me one bit. Thanks again guys ill keep you updated as I starting approaching again.


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so you DUMPED this wonderful lovely PERFECT girl areter all of your oneitis posts?

I doubt it.

I always knew you'd be back though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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