"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PUA for women

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SW15

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Error. Does not compute.
Skimmed the article. Agree with your statement.

PUA for women might be possible for lesbian women. There are still some lesbian-specific bars. Most LGBT bars are more inclusive than solely targeted at lesbians.

I think lesbians try to seduce each other on swipe apps or in the DMs too.
 

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The tactics of female PUAs apparently consist in going to a bar and asking a guy there to take photos of her and her female friend or just sit at the bar and look at people, instead of starring at your phone ... hmm, how clever and unique. :rolleyes:
Who are the clients?
It’s horrible to admit, but if pressed to imagine what sort of woman would enrol in this course, I might have said someone who was extremely shy, lacking in self-esteem or, to put it bluntly, not particularly attractive. On all fronts I’ve completely missed the mark. The three young professionals out tonight, all in their mid-thirties, are good-looking, well-dressed and great company – they’re just sick of dating apps.
Now that's the part that doesn't compute ... mid-thirties, are good-looking, well-dressed and great company ... yet they're single. And dumb enough to pay 195 GBP to have an 'expert' teach them the obvious.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nope... unless she’s a beast and is somehow picking up and getting laid by high value men???
Not even getting laid, getting marriage proposals (or some sort of exclusivity agreement) from several High Value Men. That would be the female equivalent of a PUA guy getting laid with several hot girls imho.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Skimmed the article. Agree with your statement.

PUA for women might be possible for lesbian women. There are still some lesbian-specific bars. Most LGBT bars are more inclusive than solely targeted at lesbians.

I think lesbians try to seduce each other on swipe apps or in the DMs too.
Yes, but with a lot of these lesbians it's like gaming a dude. Lower sex drive than a dude, but also less BS than a woman.
 
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