"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PUA for women

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SW15

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Error. Does not compute.
Skimmed the article. Agree with your statement.

PUA for women might be possible for lesbian women. There are still some lesbian-specific bars. Most LGBT bars are more inclusive than solely targeted at lesbians.

I think lesbians try to seduce each other on swipe apps or in the DMs too.
 

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The tactics of female PUAs apparently consist in going to a bar and asking a guy there to take photos of her and her female friend or just sit at the bar and look at people, instead of starring at your phone ... hmm, how clever and unique. :rolleyes:
Who are the clients?
It’s horrible to admit, but if pressed to imagine what sort of woman would enrol in this course, I might have said someone who was extremely shy, lacking in self-esteem or, to put it bluntly, not particularly attractive. On all fronts I’ve completely missed the mark. The three young professionals out tonight, all in their mid-thirties, are good-looking, well-dressed and great company – they’re just sick of dating apps.
Now that's the part that doesn't compute ... mid-thirties, are good-looking, well-dressed and great company ... yet they're single. And dumb enough to pay 195 GBP to have an 'expert' teach them the obvious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nope... unless she’s a beast and is somehow picking up and getting laid by high value men???
Not even getting laid, getting marriage proposals (or some sort of exclusivity agreement) from several High Value Men. That would be the female equivalent of a PUA guy getting laid with several hot girls imho.
 

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Skimmed the article. Agree with your statement.

PUA for women might be possible for lesbian women. There are still some lesbian-specific bars. Most LGBT bars are more inclusive than solely targeted at lesbians.

I think lesbians try to seduce each other on swipe apps or in the DMs too.
Yes, but with a lot of these lesbians it's like gaming a dude. Lower sex drive than a dude, but also less BS than a woman.
 
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