"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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syncmaster

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"My friend is from xxx and he's leaving tomorrow so he wants to record everythin"


"We're film students" and just carry on.

You could do the rockstar one...
"it's my birthday & its a gift"
 

animal crackers

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Well as you know 007 and I did that 1 vid, and honestly I don't know if I even want to do any more.

The approaches we did were just for fun, and pretty mediocre. The camera just makes things wierd unless they don't see it.

I don't want to do them anymore, because I was talking to some guys and Loverboy (ASF dude) actually gets recognized occasionally when he's out from NON COMMUNITY guys.

I really don't want to be a celebrity for approaching girls. I talked to 007 about this and he doesn't seem to mind so I'll make him do a # close just for you.



animal crackers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I realize that there's really a ton of guys on this site with no experience, but a number close is about the easiest thing to do. Give me a girl with even passing interest, 5 minutes, and a cell phone and it can be done.

I think the real challenge in all of this is converting after getting the number. Sometimes they'll flake even if I've made out with them...christ. :rolleyes:
 

Jariel

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I've noticed the same thing. If these guys are as good as they say they are, then surely filming a number close would be easy. I'm not saying it can't be done, but I've seen quite a lot of PUA vids and all they show is what NOT to do and guys crashing and burning.

I see what Animalcrackers is saying though, and I wouldn't want to be recognised by strangers (or people I know) as a PUA either.
 

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If any of you are familiar with SBJ pr0n series, it's a guy who screws HOs for $$ and is filming action with nerdy glasses that have built in camera and mike. Equipment like this is expensive but would be very useful for the purpose of approaching. It captures both the audio upclose and chick's reaction. I can't believe this hasn't been done before.
 

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actually it was meant as a challenge. I'm gonna try and do it too. I was checking out puameda.com and even the guys there haven't done it. I want us to be the first.

- Sync
 
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