"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PU Vid observation

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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syncmaster

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"My friend is from xxx and he's leaving tomorrow so he wants to record everythin"


"We're film students" and just carry on.

You could do the rockstar one...
"it's my birthday & its a gift"
 

animal crackers

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Well as you know 007 and I did that 1 vid, and honestly I don't know if I even want to do any more.

The approaches we did were just for fun, and pretty mediocre. The camera just makes things wierd unless they don't see it.

I don't want to do them anymore, because I was talking to some guys and Loverboy (ASF dude) actually gets recognized occasionally when he's out from NON COMMUNITY guys.

I really don't want to be a celebrity for approaching girls. I talked to 007 about this and he doesn't seem to mind so I'll make him do a # close just for you.



animal crackers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I realize that there's really a ton of guys on this site with no experience, but a number close is about the easiest thing to do. Give me a girl with even passing interest, 5 minutes, and a cell phone and it can be done.

I think the real challenge in all of this is converting after getting the number. Sometimes they'll flake even if I've made out with them...christ. :rolleyes:
 

Jariel

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I've noticed the same thing. If these guys are as good as they say they are, then surely filming a number close would be easy. I'm not saying it can't be done, but I've seen quite a lot of PUA vids and all they show is what NOT to do and guys crashing and burning.

I see what Animalcrackers is saying though, and I wouldn't want to be recognised by strangers (or people I know) as a PUA either.
 

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If any of you are familiar with SBJ pr0n series, it's a guy who screws HOs for $$ and is filming action with nerdy glasses that have built in camera and mike. Equipment like this is expensive but would be very useful for the purpose of approaching. It captures both the audio upclose and chick's reaction. I can't believe this hasn't been done before.
 

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actually it was meant as a challenge. I'm gonna try and do it too. I was checking out puameda.com and even the guys there haven't done it. I want us to be the first.

- Sync
 
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