"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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syncmaster

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"My friend is from xxx and he's leaving tomorrow so he wants to record everythin"


"We're film students" and just carry on.

You could do the rockstar one...
"it's my birthday & its a gift"
 

animal crackers

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Well as you know 007 and I did that 1 vid, and honestly I don't know if I even want to do any more.

The approaches we did were just for fun, and pretty mediocre. The camera just makes things wierd unless they don't see it.

I don't want to do them anymore, because I was talking to some guys and Loverboy (ASF dude) actually gets recognized occasionally when he's out from NON COMMUNITY guys.

I really don't want to be a celebrity for approaching girls. I talked to 007 about this and he doesn't seem to mind so I'll make him do a # close just for you.



animal crackers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I realize that there's really a ton of guys on this site with no experience, but a number close is about the easiest thing to do. Give me a girl with even passing interest, 5 minutes, and a cell phone and it can be done.

I think the real challenge in all of this is converting after getting the number. Sometimes they'll flake even if I've made out with them...christ. :rolleyes:
 

Jariel

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I've noticed the same thing. If these guys are as good as they say they are, then surely filming a number close would be easy. I'm not saying it can't be done, but I've seen quite a lot of PUA vids and all they show is what NOT to do and guys crashing and burning.

I see what Animalcrackers is saying though, and I wouldn't want to be recognised by strangers (or people I know) as a PUA either.
 

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If any of you are familiar with SBJ pr0n series, it's a guy who screws HOs for $$ and is filming action with nerdy glasses that have built in camera and mike. Equipment like this is expensive but would be very useful for the purpose of approaching. It captures both the audio upclose and chick's reaction. I can't believe this hasn't been done before.
 

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actually it was meant as a challenge. I'm gonna try and do it too. I was checking out puameda.com and even the guys there haven't done it. I want us to be the first.

- Sync
 
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