"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paradox

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Hey Guys,

I need your help again. I am looking for Psychology discussion boards. I would like to find a board similar to this one. I would like to learn about and ask experts about different Psychological states such as Schizophrenia, Bipolar disorder, OCD....ect

I know I could just google it but I was looking for a board that someone has personally used and enjoyed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey sorry I can't help you out, I was just curious why you want to find a board such as that? It would interest me too.
 

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SinJester said:
Hey sorry I can't help you out, I was just curious why you want to find a board such as that? It would interest me too.
Well the first reason is that I have always been fascinated with various mental disorders. The movie "Fight Club" features the most popular (well known) mental disorder...Schizophrenia.

I wanted to learn why the personalities are not aware of each other. I also have a slew of questions about the various disorders. I would like to get them answered from reading articles or discussions in laymans terms....like we do here.
 

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Hm yes, well I'm planning on studying it at university next year, hopefully anyway. That's my reason :p
 

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Have you tried PsychologyToday.com? It's the most "layman" site out there dealing with the social sciences with articles written by people in the field. I'd go that route for accuracy as opposed to using web forums.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Have you tried PsychologyToday.com? I'd go that route for accuracy as opposed to using web forums.
I just went there. It is a nice site but it does not allow for any discussion. I'll bookmark it for reference. Thanks Francisco.
 

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It'll be a bit difficult to find experts in the field who are willing to post to any detail although there's a bunch of forums used for supporting family members. The only other option that you may be able to finagle is sitting in on college courses where these things are discussed in detail.
 

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I did take Psyc 101 and Psyc 202. I guess I could pick up a couple of books. I would like to interact with experts though
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX said:
Much closer to the mark. especially enneagraminstitute.com. While they do have interesting personality disorder discussions, their theories are based on the Enneagram personality system.

I was looking for something more classical. Alot of this system looks theoretical.

I'll bookmark them though and do more research on the Enneagram personality system. Thanks for the input Kontroller.
 

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First off, you do realize that schizophrenia was NOT portrayed accurately in Fight Club. In fact, schizophrenia is rarely portrayed accurately in any film.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/

I'm pretty sure that is exactly what you are looking for. What I find fascinating about that place is people actually post personal stories and cases of mental disorders. Basic knowledge can be gained from wikipedia, no doubt. But seeing it in action is much more different.
 

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The Bat said:
First off, you do realize that schizophrenia was NOT portrayed accurately in Fight Club. In fact, schizophrenia is rarely portrayed accurately in any film.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/

I'm pretty sure that is exactly what you are looking for. What I find fascinating about that place is people actually post personal stories and cases of mental disorders. Basic knowledge can be gained from wikipedia, no doubt. But seeing it in action is much more different.
Thanks for the lesson about schizophrenia in movies. Schizophrenia was portrayed the same way in the movie Sybll and a few other movies.

Psychcentral is interesting. It seems to be mostly mental patients discussing their own mental disorders. Many of these patients know alot about their own condition. The only problem here is that most of the posters are still working through their problems. Like in jail, some of the criminals know more about criminal law than some lawyers.

Certainly there are some gems of information here. I'll keep it and look through the posts more thoroughly. Thanks Bat.
 

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http://www.bpdfamily.org/index.php#7

I think this is the forum reset used in his recovery after having his HPD/BPD experience Paradox.

I have started helping at this site here and there recently under my hilarious CrunkChipmunk alias.

If you are interested in all disorders people have well this site focuses on one of them as its about BPD but people there also talk about their BPD's sometimes having bipolar or OCD disorder which you specifically mentioned in your opening post as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX said:
http://www.bpdfamily.org/index.php#7

I think this is the forum reset used in his recovery after having his HPD/BPD experience Paradox.

I have started helping at this site here and there recently under my hilarious CrunkChipmunk alias.

If you are interested in all disorders people have well this site focuses on one of them as its about BPD but people there also talk about their BPD's sometimes having bipolar or OCD disorder which you specifically mentioned in your opening post as well.
Great BPD site! Very professional looking. Nice design. Information is well organized. Expert definitions of terms and conditions. Everything you want to know about BPD. Thanks again K
 

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Now that I think of it, the only movie that comes very close to portraying schizophrenia accurately is The Beautiful Mind. When I watched it, I was actually surprised by how almost realistic the disorder was portrayed.

Look for documentaries if you are looking for portrayal of mental disorders. I can't think of any off the top of my head, but PBS usually has great documentaries regarding any subject, not just mental disorders.
 

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I have a sparknotes intro to psych book that helped me a lot when I took my intro sequence. I even talked to my professors during their office hours if I had questions on the disorders. One time I read a Psychology Today mag in the school library and it had very nice articles, prob have to read it more often.
 
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