"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paradox

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Hey Guys,

I need your help again. I am looking for Psychology discussion boards. I would like to find a board similar to this one. I would like to learn about and ask experts about different Psychological states such as Schizophrenia, Bipolar disorder, OCD....ect

I know I could just google it but I was looking for a board that someone has personally used and enjoyed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey sorry I can't help you out, I was just curious why you want to find a board such as that? It would interest me too.
 

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SinJester said:
Hey sorry I can't help you out, I was just curious why you want to find a board such as that? It would interest me too.
Well the first reason is that I have always been fascinated with various mental disorders. The movie "Fight Club" features the most popular (well known) mental disorder...Schizophrenia.

I wanted to learn why the personalities are not aware of each other. I also have a slew of questions about the various disorders. I would like to get them answered from reading articles or discussions in laymans terms....like we do here.
 

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Hm yes, well I'm planning on studying it at university next year, hopefully anyway. That's my reason :p
 

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Have you tried PsychologyToday.com? It's the most "layman" site out there dealing with the social sciences with articles written by people in the field. I'd go that route for accuracy as opposed to using web forums.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Have you tried PsychologyToday.com? I'd go that route for accuracy as opposed to using web forums.
I just went there. It is a nice site but it does not allow for any discussion. I'll bookmark it for reference. Thanks Francisco.
 

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It'll be a bit difficult to find experts in the field who are willing to post to any detail although there's a bunch of forums used for supporting family members. The only other option that you may be able to finagle is sitting in on college courses where these things are discussed in detail.
 

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I did take Psyc 101 and Psyc 202. I guess I could pick up a couple of books. I would like to interact with experts though
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX said:
Much closer to the mark. especially enneagraminstitute.com. While they do have interesting personality disorder discussions, their theories are based on the Enneagram personality system.

I was looking for something more classical. Alot of this system looks theoretical.

I'll bookmark them though and do more research on the Enneagram personality system. Thanks for the input Kontroller.
 

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First off, you do realize that schizophrenia was NOT portrayed accurately in Fight Club. In fact, schizophrenia is rarely portrayed accurately in any film.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/

I'm pretty sure that is exactly what you are looking for. What I find fascinating about that place is people actually post personal stories and cases of mental disorders. Basic knowledge can be gained from wikipedia, no doubt. But seeing it in action is much more different.
 

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The Bat said:
First off, you do realize that schizophrenia was NOT portrayed accurately in Fight Club. In fact, schizophrenia is rarely portrayed accurately in any film.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/

I'm pretty sure that is exactly what you are looking for. What I find fascinating about that place is people actually post personal stories and cases of mental disorders. Basic knowledge can be gained from wikipedia, no doubt. But seeing it in action is much more different.
Thanks for the lesson about schizophrenia in movies. Schizophrenia was portrayed the same way in the movie Sybll and a few other movies.

Psychcentral is interesting. It seems to be mostly mental patients discussing their own mental disorders. Many of these patients know alot about their own condition. The only problem here is that most of the posters are still working through their problems. Like in jail, some of the criminals know more about criminal law than some lawyers.

Certainly there are some gems of information here. I'll keep it and look through the posts more thoroughly. Thanks Bat.
 

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http://www.bpdfamily.org/index.php#7

I think this is the forum reset used in his recovery after having his HPD/BPD experience Paradox.

I have started helping at this site here and there recently under my hilarious CrunkChipmunk alias.

If you are interested in all disorders people have well this site focuses on one of them as its about BPD but people there also talk about their BPD's sometimes having bipolar or OCD disorder which you specifically mentioned in your opening post as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX said:
http://www.bpdfamily.org/index.php#7

I think this is the forum reset used in his recovery after having his HPD/BPD experience Paradox.

I have started helping at this site here and there recently under my hilarious CrunkChipmunk alias.

If you are interested in all disorders people have well this site focuses on one of them as its about BPD but people there also talk about their BPD's sometimes having bipolar or OCD disorder which you specifically mentioned in your opening post as well.
Great BPD site! Very professional looking. Nice design. Information is well organized. Expert definitions of terms and conditions. Everything you want to know about BPD. Thanks again K
 

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Now that I think of it, the only movie that comes very close to portraying schizophrenia accurately is The Beautiful Mind. When I watched it, I was actually surprised by how almost realistic the disorder was portrayed.

Look for documentaries if you are looking for portrayal of mental disorders. I can't think of any off the top of my head, but PBS usually has great documentaries regarding any subject, not just mental disorders.
 

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I have a sparknotes intro to psych book that helped me a lot when I took my intro sequence. I even talked to my professors during their office hours if I had questions on the disorders. One time I read a Psychology Today mag in the school library and it had very nice articles, prob have to read it more often.
 
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