"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Psycho-Cybernetics" Inner-game masterpiece?

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I remember reading on a thread here that someone read Dr. Maxwell Maltz's "Psycho-Cybernetics" and said that it helped them develop a better self-image. From the reviews of that book it seems to be a powerful tool in working your inner-game through a better self-image. I've been reading it and trying to do the exercises for almost a week. Anyone else know anything about this book? Is it the "life changer" that I've heard it can be?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Which version of the book are you reading?
 

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I'm reading it now. I've heard a lot about it and finally decided to have a look myself. It seems brilliant so far, I'm almost halfway through. In almost every chapter I realize something important. A lot of it parallels a lot of other inner game and spiritual stuff I've been going through lately.

I would definately like to hear other peoples opinions of it.

To Shake_it, make a journal and keep doing the exercises for a month and I'm sure you will find out for yourself ;)
 

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yep, that book is a definate. Make sure you make it a real habit to visualize or something like that everyday. it takes a while to reprogram yourself, but its worth it. Most champion athletes swear by that method.
 
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I'm reading the original version, ninth printing. I'll start keeping a journal of my visualizations. Are the relaxation exercises very useful? I know that the visualization exercies are key.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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