"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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psuedo field report: Job Hunting

ValleyDJing

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Me and a buddy of mine went to the mall today. I'm looking for a job so I hit up all the guy stores like champs and footlocker etc. But then I just said f.uck it, and started going into stores like American Eagle (even though I don't do that look). The thing is I think its gonna give me an advantage.

Every store I went in, I quickly found the hottest chick to ask about applications and hiring what not. Every single one of em lit up when I asked. To be honest with you, I'm thinking they're getting tired of the metro dudes they work with. One hb 7 kept me for like 10 minutes explaining exactly all the tips and tricks I should use, who I should talk to get a job. I just made sure I acted confident, gave lots of eye contact and smiled big, teased a few of them.

One store I asked if they were hiring and the girl was like no I don't think so. As I started to walk away, she practically grabbed me saying no no wait, put an application in anyways. I just smiled at her like I knew what was up.

Anyways, I'm totally pumped about getting a job at one of these places. I mean hotties come through the mall all damn day long. This might have only been a psuedo field report, but I'm sure if I can pull it, there will be many good FR's to come so stand by.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cyp6

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ture... one of the best places to meet chicks is at work... but dont go for the chicks you work with right away.. get with the once that are shopping.. the once you work with will be into you because other chicks are into you... i was in same sit as you a about year ago.. was the best part time job i ever had.
 

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a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
 

ValleyDJing

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dynamicallyidle said:
a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
haha! well, its actually the san juaquin valley. But trust me, there are still hella hot chicks here too! lol! And I don't have the job yet, but i'm hoping so...pray for me dudes! haha!
 

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@ ValleyDjing,
Don't blow it man. Your on the right track. Going out with customers is sooo easy,its almost too easy. Just get a job at a clothing,shoe or whatever store in a mall,you will have it made. But...make sure you work with a bunch of people your age so that way,your manager doesn't trip when you are hitting on customers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Right on Valley. Sounds like you are on the right track. I don't normally recommend a guy hooking up with coworkers, the ole' "don't shyt where you eat philosophy." But a young guy looking for a part time job is different. Mack on all the customers. Let the hotties you work with see how smooth you are. Social proof if you will. I'm going to live vicariously through you as you begin this adventure. Good luck and make us all proud.:D
 

ValleyDJing

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Not looking good for me getting the job. I even had an unofficial interview with some of the managers (couple of which were hott) and I thought they were feeling me...but no call. I'm hoping by the middle of october to get a call. Thats when they usually start hiring for christmas. Anyways, just a little update, i'm keeping my fingers crossed.
 
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