"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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psuedo field report: Job Hunting

ValleyDJing

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Me and a buddy of mine went to the mall today. I'm looking for a job so I hit up all the guy stores like champs and footlocker etc. But then I just said f.uck it, and started going into stores like American Eagle (even though I don't do that look). The thing is I think its gonna give me an advantage.

Every store I went in, I quickly found the hottest chick to ask about applications and hiring what not. Every single one of em lit up when I asked. To be honest with you, I'm thinking they're getting tired of the metro dudes they work with. One hb 7 kept me for like 10 minutes explaining exactly all the tips and tricks I should use, who I should talk to get a job. I just made sure I acted confident, gave lots of eye contact and smiled big, teased a few of them.

One store I asked if they were hiring and the girl was like no I don't think so. As I started to walk away, she practically grabbed me saying no no wait, put an application in anyways. I just smiled at her like I knew what was up.

Anyways, I'm totally pumped about getting a job at one of these places. I mean hotties come through the mall all damn day long. This might have only been a psuedo field report, but I'm sure if I can pull it, there will be many good FR's to come so stand by.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cyp6

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ture... one of the best places to meet chicks is at work... but dont go for the chicks you work with right away.. get with the once that are shopping.. the once you work with will be into you because other chicks are into you... i was in same sit as you a about year ago.. was the best part time job i ever had.
 

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a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
 

ValleyDJing

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dynamicallyidle said:
a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
haha! well, its actually the san juaquin valley. But trust me, there are still hella hot chicks here too! lol! And I don't have the job yet, but i'm hoping so...pray for me dudes! haha!
 

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@ ValleyDjing,
Don't blow it man. Your on the right track. Going out with customers is sooo easy,its almost too easy. Just get a job at a clothing,shoe or whatever store in a mall,you will have it made. But...make sure you work with a bunch of people your age so that way,your manager doesn't trip when you are hitting on customers.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Right on Valley. Sounds like you are on the right track. I don't normally recommend a guy hooking up with coworkers, the ole' "don't shyt where you eat philosophy." But a young guy looking for a part time job is different. Mack on all the customers. Let the hotties you work with see how smooth you are. Social proof if you will. I'm going to live vicariously through you as you begin this adventure. Good luck and make us all proud.:D
 

ValleyDJing

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Not looking good for me getting the job. I even had an unofficial interview with some of the managers (couple of which were hott) and I thought they were feeling me...but no call. I'm hoping by the middle of october to get a call. Thats when they usually start hiring for christmas. Anyways, just a little update, i'm keeping my fingers crossed.
 
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