"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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psuedo field report: Job Hunting

ValleyDJing

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Me and a buddy of mine went to the mall today. I'm looking for a job so I hit up all the guy stores like champs and footlocker etc. But then I just said f.uck it, and started going into stores like American Eagle (even though I don't do that look). The thing is I think its gonna give me an advantage.

Every store I went in, I quickly found the hottest chick to ask about applications and hiring what not. Every single one of em lit up when I asked. To be honest with you, I'm thinking they're getting tired of the metro dudes they work with. One hb 7 kept me for like 10 minutes explaining exactly all the tips and tricks I should use, who I should talk to get a job. I just made sure I acted confident, gave lots of eye contact and smiled big, teased a few of them.

One store I asked if they were hiring and the girl was like no I don't think so. As I started to walk away, she practically grabbed me saying no no wait, put an application in anyways. I just smiled at her like I knew what was up.

Anyways, I'm totally pumped about getting a job at one of these places. I mean hotties come through the mall all damn day long. This might have only been a psuedo field report, but I'm sure if I can pull it, there will be many good FR's to come so stand by.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cyp6

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ture... one of the best places to meet chicks is at work... but dont go for the chicks you work with right away.. get with the once that are shopping.. the once you work with will be into you because other chicks are into you... i was in same sit as you a about year ago.. was the best part time job i ever had.
 

dynamicallyidle

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a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
 

ValleyDJing

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dynamicallyidle said:
a mall in the san fernando valley? score baby. score big time

it's not even a matter of hot co-workers. just the patrons of the mall are hotness. you will for sure get to practice your game with the hottest of hotties.

just don't get too spoiled by the level of hotness of those girls.
haha! well, its actually the san juaquin valley. But trust me, there are still hella hot chicks here too! lol! And I don't have the job yet, but i'm hoping so...pray for me dudes! haha!
 

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@ ValleyDjing,
Don't blow it man. Your on the right track. Going out with customers is sooo easy,its almost too easy. Just get a job at a clothing,shoe or whatever store in a mall,you will have it made. But...make sure you work with a bunch of people your age so that way,your manager doesn't trip when you are hitting on customers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cableguy

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Right on Valley. Sounds like you are on the right track. I don't normally recommend a guy hooking up with coworkers, the ole' "don't shyt where you eat philosophy." But a young guy looking for a part time job is different. Mack on all the customers. Let the hotties you work with see how smooth you are. Social proof if you will. I'm going to live vicariously through you as you begin this adventure. Good luck and make us all proud.:D
 

ValleyDJing

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Not looking good for me getting the job. I even had an unofficial interview with some of the managers (couple of which were hott) and I thought they were feeling me...but no call. I'm hoping by the middle of october to get a call. Thats when they usually start hiring for christmas. Anyways, just a little update, i'm keeping my fingers crossed.
 
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