Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Proximity IOI - Is it conscious or subconscious?

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When a chick positions herself within your proximity, what percentage of it is on a conscious level?
Or is it more subconscious where her body is responding to something or someone she's attracted to?

I was at the airport not too long ago departing on a morning flight around 6am, and usually the airport is half empty at this time.
My flight wasn't ready to leave for another hour, so I sat in another passenger seating area in another section of the airport because it was empty.
I set my alarm, put my headphones on and browsed through my catalog of music while listening to different tracks.
When my alarm went off, I took my headphones off and started packing it away.
While I was putting it away, I looked over to my right and there was a chick sitting 1 seat over next to me.

It looked like this:

Me X Her X X X X X X X X X
X X X X X X X X X X X X X X
X X X X X X X X X X X X X X
X X X X X X X X X X X X X X

X represents empty seats.

Out of all the seats that were empty she chose that one.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did you talk to her? Look her in the eyes?
 

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Answer: All of the above, plus. Could be conscious, could be subonscious, could be complete coincidence.

In the case above, my impression would probably be that she didn't want to sit alone, but didn't want to sit right next to you either. That's what I would probably think, but I can be extremely oblivious sometimes.
 

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Did you talk to her? Look her in the eyes?
I didn't even know she was there until I took my headphones off.
No flights were departing from that gate, so I assumed no one would sit in that section.
I nodded and said good morning after looking at her, but I was in a hurry to get to my boarding gate.
This particular incident was a bit unusual and caught me off guard.
It's not the first time random proximity occurrences like this has happened to me before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Proximity is a IOIs as indicated in MM and the game. Moreover, the location of a woman is not so much relevant as is the awareness of the amount of choosing signals or IOIs. It gives you permission to approach, to hit on baeeeees, to get girls.

IOIs/choosing signals = approach invitations

Moreover, when rationalising whether you should or shouldn't approach, you always should. You cultivate Being 'that guy.'

As for her seating arrangements, OP is over analysing. Assume attraction. Proceed accordingly.

Lead. She follows or next. Repeat #nextSet

Disclaimer: attention is currency to women. It must be earned. The cat string theory is bang on. Pull back, 1 step forward, 2 steps back is key. Push/pull.

Attention *****s are common. Its why you shift gears based on any of the following. She can attention *****. I'll take my **** out. Take that ambivalence.

Again, the metric by which one gauges interest level is based on compliance. There's no ambiguity.

Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.

Act as such.
 

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Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.
You say that all the time. What are you recommending? That we park outside the high school every afternoon?
"Hello, little girl, is it your birthday today?"
 

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What difference does it make conscious or unconscious? If she was hot, you should have asked for her name and number within 5 seconds of noticing her.

If she was really hot, you should have missed your flight and pounded her at the airport hotel. :p
 

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If she was really hot, you should have missed your flight and pounded her at the airport hotel.
Shouldn't your "mission" of taking the plane fight take precedence over a mere woman?
;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think its conscious however you need to take into context the location.

At a party with friend, a bar etc its good ioi
At the airport less likely imo
 
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