"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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protitutes > regular girls

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well.. i wanted to discuss this with u guys..

i often go to stripper bars and clubs now, and girls tend to be after my money (ofcourse, right?)

but even though i do NOT give them money, they still seem to give me affection and care. I have fun being around prostitutes so to speak.. I see them as more because they are being theirselves.

They are more open.

As opposed to regular girls you see in malls and classmates or whatever, they tend to play games and ****. I dont feel as comfortable as I am when I am with prostitutes.

That's why I think prostitutes are > than regular girls. Plus if ever I will treat them or give them money or whatever, it seems like money much more well spent than buying a girl movie tickets or dinner

(booooring - well, atleast to me. Like I give a ****, right? Wtf have we got to talke about over dinner that I care about?)

What are your thought on this, guys?

note: as i type this i feel like i have become an overly different person as i was before visiting this site 1 month ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by -.-
but even though i do NOT give them money, they still seem to give me affection and care. I have fun being around prostitutes so to speak.. I see them as more because they are being theirselves.

They are more open.

As opposed to regular girls you see in malls and classmates or whatever, they tend to play games and ****. I dont feel as comfortable as I am when I am with prostitutes.
No, they've just gotten a lot better at faking openness and sincerity in an attempt to get money. If you don't think that's what they're after, then go ahead and try to set up a date with one. See what happens.

And I think you have your terminology mixed up. "Prostitute" implies that the woman is actually having sex/performing sexual acts with you for money. A lapdance does not count as "prostitution."

And of COURSE you feel more comfortable being sexual with these girls. They EXPECT it and they get PAID for it.
 

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Re: Re: protitutes > regular girls

Originally posted by squirrels
No, they've just gotten a lot better at faking openness and sincerity in an attempt to get money. If you don't think that's what they're after, then go ahead and try to set up a date with one. See what happens.

And I think you have your terminology mixed up. "Prostitute" implies that the woman is actually having sex/performing sexual acts with you for money. A lapdance does not count as "prostitution."

And of COURSE you feel more comfortable being sexual with these girls. They EXPECT it and they get PAID for it.
Most/All girls who lapdance offer sex for money. GRO's and dancers are most likely prostitutes too.. I use the term in general because I never met a dancer/stripper that would'nt offer herself to me for free or for money.

Ofcourse they are after my money, but atleast they are forward and straight with it. This is just my opinion, let me know what u think though. :|
 

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Originally posted by -.-


They are more open.

You can say that again!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: Re: Re: protitutes > regular girls

Originally posted by -.-
Most/All girls who lapdance offer sex for money. GRO's and dancers are most likely prostitutes too.. I use the term in general because I never met a dancer/stripper that would'nt offer herself to me for free or for money.

Ofcourse they are after my money, but atleast they are forward and straight with it. This is just my opinion, let me know what u think though. :|
Heh, you've been going to some seedy strip clubs, then.

I've gotten phone numbers from a couple of strippers at strip clubs. They're always real numbers, but they either never pick up/call back or they never allow you to set up an encounter.

How many of these girls have you actually bought sexual service/been offered sexual service from?
 

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Re: Re: Re: protitutes > regular girls

Originally posted by -.-
They are more open.
No pun intended of course ;)
 

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You should read this book, it's a real eye-opener when it comes to Thai/Filipino bargirls. Click on 'download for free.' It's actually a really great book - i couldn't put it down until finishing it. But still, i generally do agree with you. Still, don't be fooled: if lying to you can get them more money, they'll lie in an instant.

http://www.theatavist.com/private_dancer_stephen_leather.html
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Oh ****, I keep forgetting. Different culture. :eek:
I have GOT to go there someday! All the pvssy in the world for what like, $20 a pop?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't even look at hookers.That's the ultimate emasculating experience.Real men don't pay for it.
 

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Originally posted by Krassus
I have GOT to go there someday! All the pvssy in the world for what like, $20 a pop?
You'd better have condoms made of adamantium alloy or something if you're gonna do that. :eek:
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I don't even look at hookers.That's the ultimate emasculating experience.Real men don't pay for it.
Hmm .. I can categorize those people who pay for sex into 3 groups:

1. Losers who cannot get pu$$y.
2. Married. Bored with wife. Want new pu$$y but does not want any strings attached.
3. Very powerful individuals: like polititions, celebrities, sports players who does not deal with hassel of finding girls.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I don't even look at hookers.That's the ultimate emasculating experience.Real men don't pay for it.
Why do we hear about "gangster rappers" rapping about *****es and hoes then though? You're saying they are'nt real men?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone who says that "real men don't pay for sex" is a homo.

Are you telling me that if you were in a horrible accident with burns all over your body, looked like a freak, and could never get a woman again, that you'd give up sex entirely?

Usually people who say that they'd "never pay for sex" are closeted homosexuals.
 

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It's not a matter of "culture". The Phillippines is an impoverished nation, so naturally the 'survival switch' is turned on in the heads of those women - survive/get ahead by any means necessary... that includes sex for money. German women did it too when the U.S. and Soviets invaded Germany at the end of the second world war. Vietnamese did it, and so did every other race, culture, and creed throughout human history. Hell, if the US was bombed out and colonized or something tommorrow, all of our sisters and mother and girlfriends might consider doing it, as a matter of survival.
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
Anyone who says that "real men don't pay for sex" is a homo.

Are you telling me that if you were in a horrible accident with burns all over your body, looked like a freak, and could never get a woman again, that you'd give up sex entirely?

Usually people who say that they'd "never pay for sex" are closeted homosexuals.
Aren't you splitting hairs a little there?

As for paying for sex, I've never personally had to, and wouldn't unless things were extreme.
 

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Everyone's paid for sex. They just haven't handed the money directly to the female though. Maybe to the cashier at the store, the waiter at the restraunt, or the condom dude at the sex shop. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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