That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My statement can either be true or false, saying it's true then changing is as a false is a deceitful tactic used by liars.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You fvcker. You're gonna make me get on my laptop.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
1. You implicitly stated that if everyone were poor, there would be no corruption. What do you think that means?
We already do have a mix of socialism with capitalism in the USA. Social Security and Medicare help the elderly and disabled survive when they are no longer able to be entirely self sufficient. The military is funded by the people and also demonstrates socialism within a system that is driven by capitalism.
People who repeat lies are called liars. Rather than address my rebuttal, you repeat the lie.
Repeating lie #2 again as your premise. Link where I mentioned the poor and corruption.
Not sure why location is relevant. I do live in New Jersey - the wealthiest state in the US. We’re more than generous with social programs here. I’m sure you live in one of those ****hole red states.
And of course you dodged the Republican tax bill. Do you support it?
Nope.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He's stupid and an entitled little b1tch that's more worried about rich corporations butt fvcking him.
Nah. He's just plain stupid.
How does that work, in a global depression?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What depression ?
You might want to get a second opinion, or even 5, on that. Just to insure against human biases or errors.
MNC internal reporting on world economy actually reflects what's actually on the ground rather then biased Govt reports lmao
I get news from multiple sources.
Don't tell me it's from an entity that deals in conspiracy...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
