Intrakit98
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 24, 2007
- Messages
- 18
- Reaction score
- 0
I'm about to do it for the first time and I was wondering what type of condoms or protection do I need? Any advice would be helpful.Thanks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Protection
- Thread starter Intrakit98
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
Go with trojans or lifestyle, id stay away from durex, they tend to be not as reliable.
danthemann
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2008
- Messages
- 97
- Reaction score
- 0
i use the durex 20% thinner...
freinds of mine have had lifestyles break on em.
freinds of mine have had lifestyles break on em.
off the cuff:
Non-novelty condoms are regulated by the FDA. If it hasn't passed its expiry date or been compromised in some way, you can literally put your entire forearm inside without it breaking.
Never, ever use oil-based lubricants with latex condoms. Put a bit of vaseline on your fingertips and rub a condom between them, then try to stretch it and you'll see what I mean. Use water-based lubes, e.g KY.
Always carry unexpired condoms and keep them in a cool, frictionless place. Back pocket: bad. Wallet: bad. Purse/murse in a pocket without hard utensils: good. Rolled down fold of your sock: good. Only use condoms from a package that has a 'pillow' of air in it.
Some people have latex allergies/sensitivities. Google suggests no studies have been done on how common this is. Polyurethane condoms (avanti or whatever) are much more expensive, but if you want to cover your bases, carry one of these with you. They don't stink like latex, they are thinner, but they're a little crinklier on the whole.
Non-novelty condoms are regulated by the FDA. If it hasn't passed its expiry date or been compromised in some way, you can literally put your entire forearm inside without it breaking.
Never, ever use oil-based lubricants with latex condoms. Put a bit of vaseline on your fingertips and rub a condom between them, then try to stretch it and you'll see what I mean. Use water-based lubes, e.g KY.
Always carry unexpired condoms and keep them in a cool, frictionless place. Back pocket: bad. Wallet: bad. Purse/murse in a pocket without hard utensils: good. Rolled down fold of your sock: good. Only use condoms from a package that has a 'pillow' of air in it.
Some people have latex allergies/sensitivities. Google suggests no studies have been done on how common this is. Polyurethane condoms (avanti or whatever) are much more expensive, but if you want to cover your bases, carry one of these with you. They don't stink like latex, they are thinner, but they're a little crinklier on the whole.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh yeah, and...
DO get lube. Not just lubricated condoms, but some separate lubricant.
It feels waaaaay better for the girl, plus lubricants actually reduce your chances of contracting STD's because (1) your condom's less likely to break, and (2) you're abrading her skin less.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
DO get lube. Not just lubricated condoms, but some separate lubricant.
It feels waaaaay better for the girl, plus lubricants actually reduce your chances of contracting STD's because (1) your condom's less likely to break, and (2) you're abrading her skin less.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
MacAvoy
Banned
Go bare or go home!