“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Proposal ideas?

Ragnarok

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Hi guys

I've been seeing this girl for a year in a long distance relationship and I want to ask her to marry me. The thing is, I want to do something original and new, not to do it in a resturaunt or whatever.

She's a big fan of friends, and I'd like to do it in a museum, filled with lillies and candles, but, assuming thats out of the question, does anyone have any ideas on how to make the proposal unique?

Cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ricky

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I don't know but don't flame the guy over long distance.

Take any scenario, for instance a guy could date a hometown sweetheart for 10 years and she lives in the same town as him for that time, they get married, a few years later get a divorce.

Or take a guy that meets a girl on a cruise and 2 weeks later proposes. They stay married for 50 years.

The circumstances are unpredictable. It matters more how people evolve together.

I certainly haven't figured it out, my long distance girlfriend really ****ing broke my heart. All was well and she pulled the plug. Obviously alot of **** goes into that, but why flame people.

PEOPLE ARE GETTING TO BECOME MORE AND MORE OF AHOLES ON HERE. Do we really know the circumstances of this guys life? Quit ****ing being judgmental everyone. If you can't offer anything constructive than SHUT THE FVCK UP

(Not that what i offered was necessarily constructive either)
 

Ricky

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And notice the interesting Dichotomy.

One guy registered in 2002 has 10 posts, the guy registered this month has alot more.

Of course I have an absolute ****ing ton myself!
 

Deep Dish

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I knew the instant I read the title to this thread that Ragnarok would get flamed. I have seen the majority of the (male half) of a restaurant staff discreetly mock a guy while the guy was proposing to a woman in the restaurant, and it was a nice restaurant. Misogyny runs deep within many men.

I have always thought that proposing (or tying the knot) while skydiving would be funny and the ultimate of novelty, although the logistics have never been favorable. Proposing while snorkeling would also be novel, although with equally dismal logistics. I have two sisters who are both married, and for my younger sister her then-boyfriend arranged a complex plan whereby he suprised her with an airline trip to New York City under the guise of it being for her birthday, and he then during their trip he popped the question during one of those horse carriage rides through Central Park (or something along those lines.) The then-boyfriend considered proposing on the airline flight over to New York, having the pilot make a special announcement on the flight to set the moment, but for whatever reason he backed out of that idea.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Immaculate

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goddamn we have guys on here posting about proposal idea, and other guys who's fiancee just left them...
 
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