"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Proposal ideas?

Ragnarok

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Hi guys

I've been seeing this girl for a year in a long distance relationship and I want to ask her to marry me. The thing is, I want to do something original and new, not to do it in a resturaunt or whatever.

She's a big fan of friends, and I'd like to do it in a museum, filled with lillies and candles, but, assuming thats out of the question, does anyone have any ideas on how to make the proposal unique?

Cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ricky

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I don't know but don't flame the guy over long distance.

Take any scenario, for instance a guy could date a hometown sweetheart for 10 years and she lives in the same town as him for that time, they get married, a few years later get a divorce.

Or take a guy that meets a girl on a cruise and 2 weeks later proposes. They stay married for 50 years.

The circumstances are unpredictable. It matters more how people evolve together.

I certainly haven't figured it out, my long distance girlfriend really ****ing broke my heart. All was well and she pulled the plug. Obviously alot of **** goes into that, but why flame people.

PEOPLE ARE GETTING TO BECOME MORE AND MORE OF AHOLES ON HERE. Do we really know the circumstances of this guys life? Quit ****ing being judgmental everyone. If you can't offer anything constructive than SHUT THE FVCK UP

(Not that what i offered was necessarily constructive either)
 

Ricky

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And notice the interesting Dichotomy.

One guy registered in 2002 has 10 posts, the guy registered this month has alot more.

Of course I have an absolute ****ing ton myself!
 

Deep Dish

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I knew the instant I read the title to this thread that Ragnarok would get flamed. I have seen the majority of the (male half) of a restaurant staff discreetly mock a guy while the guy was proposing to a woman in the restaurant, and it was a nice restaurant. Misogyny runs deep within many men.

I have always thought that proposing (or tying the knot) while skydiving would be funny and the ultimate of novelty, although the logistics have never been favorable. Proposing while snorkeling would also be novel, although with equally dismal logistics. I have two sisters who are both married, and for my younger sister her then-boyfriend arranged a complex plan whereby he suprised her with an airline trip to New York City under the guise of it being for her birthday, and he then during their trip he popped the question during one of those horse carriage rides through Central Park (or something along those lines.) The then-boyfriend considered proposing on the airline flight over to New York, having the pilot make a special announcement on the flight to set the moment, but for whatever reason he backed out of that idea.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Immaculate

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goddamn we have guys on here posting about proposal idea, and other guys who's fiancee just left them...
 
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