"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Proper response from the sosuave OGs

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Big mistake. Did the same with a Paraguay girl, b!tch move from the man, too passive aggressive and childish.
not really my man. I have used it in the past with northern mexican girls and they eat that sh!t right up.

hours ago she replied with " who else did you call little panther..."

what is the course of action here.

Ignore or just put " I called that to a few"

this female knows I didn't chase her like the other fools after I dropped her like a bad habit. That is what heats up her ovaries her till this day.
Im playing chess not checkers.

all my bonafide players tap in
 
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Ok I get it now, she's banged cartel members and broadcasting your face and location to the world.

You did the right thing so far. The next right thing to do is to ignore her completely. Not once have you said she's 10/10 and better than all the girls so far, so just ghost and carry on with your life.

Also yes, make it clear taking videos without your consent is a big NO, to then upload it will get her phone and/or face smashed in. I've never had to issue that warning, most women just know.
Bro 10/10 has no bearing on that...his life is far more important than some random chick
 

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not really my man. I have used it in the past with northern mexican girls and they eat that sh!t right up.

hours ago she replied with " who else did you call little panther..."

what is the course of action here.

Ignore or just put " I called that to a few"

this female knows I didn't chase her after I dropped her like a bad habit. That is what gets her till this day. Im playing chess not checkers.

all my bonafide players tap in
Ignore and be glad you are still alive.
 

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Ignore and be glad you are still alive.
I read all your posts on this thread and others. You got a voice of reason. At 31, Im still brushing up on women nature with every life experience.
I covered alot of ground already thru trials and tribulations after my awakening years ago regarding women.
I use to ghost around and pick up game on this site since 2009 when kanye dropped that Heartless banger.
Just now I decided to make an account and contribute to this community for the cause.
I appreciate it my G
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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not really my man. I have used it in the past with northern mexican girls and they eat that sh!t right up.

hours ago she replied with " who else did you call little panther..."

what is the course of action here.

Ignore or just put " I called that to a few"

this female knows I didn't chase her like the other fools after I dropped her like a bad habit. That is what heats up her ovaries her till this day.
Im playing chess not checkers.

all my bonafide players tap in
What are you hoping to achieve?

I redact my previous post, you definitely need to ghost this chick for your own good
 

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Its a wrap. Shot her my reply on voice (whats app) with a c0cktail of indifference and class. thats it.

"thats right I used to call that to someone I used to know a while back but hey things have changed and Im just feelin it anymore, take care."
 
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