"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Proof that women just go as gaga for GL-men than men do for GL-women
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.
That's exactly what society feeds you.
"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".
"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."
"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."
All that is BS.
I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.
That's exactly what society feeds you.
"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".
"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."
"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."
All that is BS.
I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.
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ChrizZ said:
My point of this post was not to complain or envy the guy, it was just to show those who doubt that women won't go crazy (like we do with hot girls) when they see an attractive man.
I know you don't have to model looks to land a hot girl, I saw an ugly dude yesterday ( had severe dento-facial deformity) with a hottie and another guy in the hotel today who had a crooked nose and an overbite with a "9".
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Loser? My post has nothing to do about being negative idiot...maybe you should pay attention to what you read!!!Real said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Absolutely dude! Women are just as excited over good looking guys as we are over good looking women, if not more-so. What do women talk about most of the time when they meet up with their girls? They talk about us guys.. Women actually WANT to be approached by good looking guys.
Now you wonder, since they want to be approached by good looking guys, then how come they treat some guys like **** when they cold approach them? Well, it depends on the girl. If a UG approached you in the mall, would you be friendly and flirtatious? Or would you try to give off all the vibes that you're not into her? Some girls are nice to your face, but when you call asking to hang out, they won't even answer their phone. Getting her number is the easy part! If she doesn't feel any sort of attraction for you in the first place, chances are, you won't succeed with her. You can help build attraction when you first meet her with DHV's and a display of flirtatious C&F.
Some women are shallow, just like some of us guys are shallow. Of course guys tend to judge more on the physical, don't think that women don't do the same. The way I look at it is, if a woman won't go out with you just because you don't look like some GQ model, then who cares... Find another woman who isn't so hung up on looks.
After all.... In the end, we're all human
Now you wonder, since they want to be approached by good looking guys, then how come they treat some guys like **** when they cold approach them? Well, it depends on the girl. If a UG approached you in the mall, would you be friendly and flirtatious? Or would you try to give off all the vibes that you're not into her? Some girls are nice to your face, but when you call asking to hang out, they won't even answer their phone. Getting her number is the easy part! If she doesn't feel any sort of attraction for you in the first place, chances are, you won't succeed with her. You can help build attraction when you first meet her with DHV's and a display of flirtatious C&F.
Some women are shallow, just like some of us guys are shallow. Of course guys tend to judge more on the physical, don't think that women don't do the same. The way I look at it is, if a woman won't go out with you just because you don't look like some GQ model, then who cares... Find another woman who isn't so hung up on looks.
After all.... In the end, we're all human
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Me or Real?MVPlaya said: