"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Proof that women just go as gaga for GL-men than men do for GL-women

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ

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That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.

That's exactly what society feeds you.

"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".

"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."

"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."

All that is BS.

I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.
 

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ChrizZ said:
That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.

That's exactly what society feeds you.

"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".

"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."

"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."

All that is BS.

I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.

My point of this post was not to complain or envy the guy, it was just to show those who doubt that women won't go crazy (like we do with hot girls) when they see an attractive man.

I know you don't have to model looks to land a hot girl, I saw an ugly dude yesterday ( had severe dento-facial deformity) with a hottie and another guy in the hotel today who had a crooked nose and an overbite with a "9".
 

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whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Absolutely dude! Women are just as excited over good looking guys as we are over good looking women, if not more-so. What do women talk about most of the time when they meet up with their girls? They talk about us guys.. Women actually WANT to be approached by good looking guys.

Now you wonder, since they want to be approached by good looking guys, then how come they treat some guys like **** when they cold approach them? Well, it depends on the girl. If a UG approached you in the mall, would you be friendly and flirtatious? Or would you try to give off all the vibes that you're not into her? Some girls are nice to your face, but when you call asking to hang out, they won't even answer their phone. Getting her number is the easy part! If she doesn't feel any sort of attraction for you in the first place, chances are, you won't succeed with her. You can help build attraction when you first meet her with DHV's and a display of flirtatious C&F.

Some women are shallow, just like some of us guys are shallow. Of course guys tend to judge more on the physical, don't think that women don't do the same. The way I look at it is, if a woman won't go out with you just because you don't look like some GQ model, then who cares... Find another woman who isn't so hung up on looks.

After all.... In the end, we're all human :)
 

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Mahon, duh.

Real said:
whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
Every time you post you're just negative, are you trying to tell us something about yourself? If you want help, the free clinic is the other way.
 

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