You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ChrizZ said:That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.
That's exactly what society feeds you.
"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".
"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."
"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."
All that is BS.
I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.
Loser? My post has nothing to do about being negative idiot...maybe you should pay attention to what you read!!!Real said:whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Every time you post you're just negative, are you trying to tell us something about yourself? If you want help, the free clinic is the other way.Real said:whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
Me or Real?MVPlaya said:Mahon, duh.
Every time you post you're just negative, are you trying to tell us something about yourself? If you want help, the free clinic is the other way.