"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Proof that women just go as gaga for GL-men than men do for GL-women

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChrizZ

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That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.

That's exactly what society feeds you.

"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".

"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."

"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."

All that is BS.

I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.
 

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ChrizZ said:
That's because "not so good looking people" don't think that they can get hot girls and don't approach them.

That's exactly what society feeds you.

"You have to have model looks to get hot chicks".

"You have to be rich to get hot chicks."

"You have to have hundreds of friends to get hot chicks."

All that is BS.

I'm only 18, but I don't live in a cave. I see hot chicks with ugly or average looking guys all the time.

My point of this post was not to complain or envy the guy, it was just to show those who doubt that women won't go crazy (like we do with hot girls) when they see an attractive man.

I know you don't have to model looks to land a hot girl, I saw an ugly dude yesterday ( had severe dento-facial deformity) with a hottie and another guy in the hotel today who had a crooked nose and an overbite with a "9".
 

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whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Absolutely dude! Women are just as excited over good looking guys as we are over good looking women, if not more-so. What do women talk about most of the time when they meet up with their girls? They talk about us guys.. Women actually WANT to be approached by good looking guys.

Now you wonder, since they want to be approached by good looking guys, then how come they treat some guys like **** when they cold approach them? Well, it depends on the girl. If a UG approached you in the mall, would you be friendly and flirtatious? Or would you try to give off all the vibes that you're not into her? Some girls are nice to your face, but when you call asking to hang out, they won't even answer their phone. Getting her number is the easy part! If she doesn't feel any sort of attraction for you in the first place, chances are, you won't succeed with her. You can help build attraction when you first meet her with DHV's and a display of flirtatious C&F.

Some women are shallow, just like some of us guys are shallow. Of course guys tend to judge more on the physical, don't think that women don't do the same. The way I look at it is, if a woman won't go out with you just because you don't look like some GQ model, then who cares... Find another woman who isn't so hung up on looks.

After all.... In the end, we're all human :)
 

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Mahon, duh.

Real said:
whats this? another negative thread from a loser who needs to focus on being more positive in life?
Every time you post you're just negative, are you trying to tell us something about yourself? If you want help, the free clinic is the other way.
 

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