I was talking to this girl I knew from school online and she didn't seem too into me by the way she was responding. After a couple minutes I didn't feel like wasting any more time with her and simply told her "I hate to say it, but I don't think this is going anywhere, maybe we'll talk again sometime girl" And sure enough her exact response was "you should call me tommorrow". I was pretty shocked, I reject a hot girl and she tells me to call her, hmmm interesting. Obviously I'm not going to call her tommorrow, but instead the day after. To show her I play by my own rules. Just goes to show ya, have some fuking pride and it will be noticed by others. I am a novice DJ, but I thought this was a big step for me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Proof that NEXTING will bring them back
- Thread starter AceyR6
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BGMan
Master Don Juan
It's called the "Returning Fox" theory. And it's a well-known fact of life in the DJ's world.
Right now, I apparently have a Returning Fox on my hands too. Always "too busy" to go out on a second date with me (I've heard her friends talk about how she's such a workaholic), she's now been giving me lots of attention, courtesy of my blanking her repeatedly.
BGMan
Right now, I apparently have a Returning Fox on my hands too. Always "too busy" to go out on a second date with me (I've heard her friends talk about how she's such a workaholic), she's now been giving me lots of attention, courtesy of my blanking her repeatedly.
BGMan
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Don Juan
very interesting. does anyone else have any experiences with nexting a girl and having them start calling or come running?
Kev07
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eh the girls i nexted, stay nexted. maybe because i end up talking lots of smack behind their backs and they find out about it
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
I once told a blind date off on the phone when she directed me to the wrong house on purpose as I went to pick her up for coffee. She was a nut case, yes, but when I blasted her and hung up, she called back about 10 times. I only answered the first two calls.
I really was pissed off, so I wasn't doing any kind of DJ shtick, but I remember that BS now as an example of what this thread is about. Have some balls and retain your dignity no matter what.
I really was pissed off, so I wasn't doing any kind of DJ shtick, but I remember that BS now as an example of what this thread is about. Have some balls and retain your dignity no matter what.
SamRi72
Don Juan
This is very reminiscent of the Art of Seduction's description of Coquette. They have periods of hot, where you think you're winning, and then they all of a sudden go cold and distant on you. This is a very powerful seductive technique that many women have mastered.
its actually referred to as many things; ACTIVE DISS-INTEREST, playing hard to get (old school), supply & demand-----cut the supply (make yourself scarce) and your value goes way up. It's a DJ parodox: women expect men to chase them but the moment you take interest the ANTI-ATTRACTION neurons begin to fire and the attraction on her end begins to dissolve. They want you to persue them but when they see evidence that you are, they know they have you. Pulling away, ending the chase, truncating further communications redirects the imbalance in your favor. Its a cat & mouse game.......tease a little and then pull back.
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Don Juan
i had my GF of 5 years walk out on me in kind of a nasty breakup from her end. inteerestingly enough there was/is no other guy involved. without getting into the symantecs of the situation (which i did on the other forum in one of my threads), i can say that i did 1/2 of what i was supposed to, and then after joining this forum i NEXTed her a$$ to kingdom come. i found another girl who is prettier. i let myself be seen out with her (which got back to the ex). i did NOT call the ex anymore and moved on, all within a few weeks of her leaving.
if this chic tries to come back crawling returning fox style, since i have been playing this game like a true DJ, and since she is BROKE and cant stand on her own feet - it is going to be the most amusing pehnomenon i have ever lay witness to in my entire life. i will surely keep you folks posted.
if this chic tries to come back crawling returning fox style, since i have been playing this game like a true DJ, and since she is BROKE and cant stand on her own feet - it is going to be the most amusing pehnomenon i have ever lay witness to in my entire life. i will surely keep you folks posted.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Actually I was going to start a thread on my situation--in a nutshell:
*A long time ago I had a FB, great sex etc, she flaked went back to ex hubby
*After many months, I saw her in grocery store, invited her to my workplace
*We would make out and get touchy feely in my office
*I think I acted "too eager" in trying to get her back to my house for sex. She kept coming up w/excuses why she couldn't--no time, had to take kids to bball practice etc
*Now, 3 months later, still no sex from her
Next time I talk to her on phone, I will next her. Give her the LJBF's thing. Offer to line her up with my one of my friends. Tell her that I've lost interest due to her being aloof.
Will it get her horizontal guys?
PS-She still has ex issues, but not back w/him
*A long time ago I had a FB, great sex etc, she flaked went back to ex hubby
*After many months, I saw her in grocery store, invited her to my workplace
*We would make out and get touchy feely in my office
*I think I acted "too eager" in trying to get her back to my house for sex. She kept coming up w/excuses why she couldn't--no time, had to take kids to bball practice etc
*Now, 3 months later, still no sex from her
Next time I talk to her on phone, I will next her. Give her the LJBF's thing. Offer to line her up with my one of my friends. Tell her that I've lost interest due to her being aloof.
Will it get her horizontal guys?
PS-She still has ex issues, but not back w/him
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Exactly.Luke!! said:Well your returning fox only returns to get the satisfaction out of you, affirm that they could still get you. They will come back and act like they want you, but in reality it just to grab the ounce of self confidence you stole from them back.
The best way for a girl to keep getting attention from guys...is to kawktease them and make them think that they ALLLMOOOSTTTT are JUUUSSSTTTT about to get some puzzy from them. :crackup:
You gotta admit, most guys these days are about as stupid as donkeys...ya YA! Seriously, it's like dangling a toy in front of a cat - and watching it swipe for it over and over and...over.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
So guys is the name of this game "You always want what you can't have?"