"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tempest

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Hey guys.

I'm interested in getting into the promotional industry. I want to be an Event Promoter, and promote events such as nightclubs, concerts, fashion shows, or basically ANY social gathering.

The only thing is that I don't know how to get started.

Do you guys have any advice for me? How do I get my foot in the door? What does the job take?

ANY information will be helpful. Thanks. =)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007

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whatch what you wish for.

we got a lot of promoters downtowon, because of all the bars and clubs..... it's a sh*ty job. They basicly have to run up to people and convince them to go to a certin club....

The only thing this job is good for is for getting over rejections (lot of times brutal rejections).....
 

Tempest

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You're talking about a street promoter.

The ACTUAL promoter hires street promoters to run around and give out fliers and stuff... it's just another way for the promoter to promote their event.

I'm talking about an ACTUAL event promoter... which means I'd have my own event at a club... you know, which means throwing wet t-shirt contests, finding the top DJ's to play, etc...
 

iqqi

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We have a small promotions company, we basically throw our own events. You call up the clubs you are interested in and ask them about throwing a party or what have you. Ask them how they go about the business, is there a flat rental fee, or do they take a cut of the door? Figure out what kind of event you want to do, parties are the easiest. Come up with a good party, get a good DJ (should run you $150-400 depending on where you live and who you get). Then promote like a b!tch. Flyers, posters, emails, myspace, ect. for atleast 2 weeks minimum.

Then hope the people come. It can be totally hit or miss. But when it is a hit it is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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