"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tempest

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Hey guys.

I'm interested in getting into the promotional industry. I want to be an Event Promoter, and promote events such as nightclubs, concerts, fashion shows, or basically ANY social gathering.

The only thing is that I don't know how to get started.

Do you guys have any advice for me? How do I get my foot in the door? What does the job take?

ANY information will be helpful. Thanks. =)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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whatch what you wish for.

we got a lot of promoters downtowon, because of all the bars and clubs..... it's a sh*ty job. They basicly have to run up to people and convince them to go to a certin club....

The only thing this job is good for is for getting over rejections (lot of times brutal rejections).....
 

Tempest

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You're talking about a street promoter.

The ACTUAL promoter hires street promoters to run around and give out fliers and stuff... it's just another way for the promoter to promote their event.

I'm talking about an ACTUAL event promoter... which means I'd have my own event at a club... you know, which means throwing wet t-shirt contests, finding the top DJ's to play, etc...
 

iqqi

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We have a small promotions company, we basically throw our own events. You call up the clubs you are interested in and ask them about throwing a party or what have you. Ask them how they go about the business, is there a flat rental fee, or do they take a cut of the door? Figure out what kind of event you want to do, parties are the easiest. Come up with a good party, get a good DJ (should run you $150-400 depending on where you live and who you get). Then promote like a b!tch. Flyers, posters, emails, myspace, ect. for atleast 2 weeks minimum.

Then hope the people come. It can be totally hit or miss. But when it is a hit it is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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