There's a lot of pressure to go to prom, but without going into much detail, I don't have any people I would consider real friends to hang out with for the night. I dont think I will have an enjoyable time. Would not going be something that I would regret?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Prom
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dfb808 said:
just go to have fun and connect with your class and everyone is your friend just connect with people. if you some time read dale carnegie's how to win friends and influence people, and get comedy writinng secret.(friend pyschology and humor)
check out:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt go to no stinkin proms.
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Prom can be fun.. but from what you said it'll probably just be a waste of money. If you don't have a group to go with then.. yeah I wouldnt.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
franchise21
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go with a freaking hot chick from a diff school...just as friends or w/e...becaseu then you will look liek a stud to all the people you DO know...thats my strategy